Alaikum salam Sister...
sorry for your difficult situation. For me it's simple; obeying husband is only applicable if it's not contradict with the rules of Allah and Sunnah Rasullallah.
Wassalam
Inna lillahi wainna ilaihi raji'un.
Bismillahirrahmannirrahim.
Ya Allah yg maha pengasih dan maha penyayang, berikan kekuatan dan kemampuan lahir batin kepada Sdi kami Bar`ah. Sembuhkanlah segala penyakitnya ya Allah.
Amin ya Rabbal alamin.
Well come Sis...
Live in sweden? but you sounds like Indonesian ...:SMILY335: sorry just guesting..
in Indonesia, Cinta = Love... and ending words with "wassalam" most often used by Indonesian muslim.
Assalamualaikum warahmatullah for you all ...ya habibAllah..
Allow me to introduce my self ; Abu from Indonesia..
Wish all of us always be in Rahmat of Allah SWT.
Amin...
JazakAllah