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    Question: I did not start fasting at the age I was supposed to?

    I know I've been asking a lot of questions about fasting, but this has been an area of concern for me. I know you're supposed to start fasting at the age of puberty, which for girls is the age when they started getting their periods. Anyways, I didn't start fasting at that age because I didn't...
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    Question: Is making up this fast enough?

    You're right but there's not much I can do. I try to steer clear from him now, I even told my mom about it and she yelled at him so much that he won't come in my room now, unless she tells him to, which is good. Anyways thanks for answering my question, btw I have another one, if you get a small...
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    Question: Is making up this fast enough?

    I made a thread before about my dad not allowing me to use razors so I didn't remove my hair for a while (don't worry, it was less than 40 days). By the way he's my step dad. Anyways, I didn't do it so he came in my room one morning and he looked at my parts and saw there was hair. He took a...
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    Question: How do I pray?

    My question is one day I was eating a hot pocket and I got some crumbs on my pants and on the carpet. A few days later I found out that hot pockets are haram and since haram food is impure, I'm kind of on edge. I haven't been praying since because I feel like every part of the house is impure. I...
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    Question: Pakistani "Muslim" Weddings?

    Ameen may Allah bless you as well sis <3
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    Question: Husband Making a Wife do Sin?

    My family is in America but my husband is in Pakistan. About the leaving the sunnah prayers, that makes a lot more sense! My dad was taking about prayers in general which I thought was wrong. I really wasn't that practicing when I met my husband. My dad was there but he let us talk in private...
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    Question: Pakistani "Muslim" Weddings?

    Thank you sis! I appreciated this, and I don't mind :") we have the same views lol Alhamdulillah someone finally understands where I'm coming from! I will try my best to convince them In Sha Allah. I hope your wedding (whenever it may be) is free from haram as well. Since we only have the...
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    Question: Pakistani "Muslim" Weddings?

    Ya they wanna do it mixed which is why I'm so frustrated and music is okay if it's just women singing with each other, no men around and with a duff like the way they used to do it but now even in Muslim weddings there's DJs that play all sorts of music and men and women are seated together and...
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    TurnToIslam Acts that are Makruh in Salaah

    1. Makruh is that act with which salaah does not break but the reward diminishes and it is sinful. 2. It is makruh to play with one's clothing, body, jewellery, or to remove pebbles. However, if one cannot make sajdahbecause of the pebbles, he could move them once or twice with his hands. 3...
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    Hadith Image Makers Will Be Punished on the Day of Judgement

    One should realize that the prohibition of picture making is EXTREMELY SEVERE, that it is counted among the enormities, and the threats against doing it are very emphatic. Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim relate that a man came to Ibn Abbas (Allah be well pleased with him and his father) and said...
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    Question: Pakistani "Muslim" Weddings?

    Thank you. I remember I told my husband that I want to wear an abaya and I don't want any music playing and he said okay but I don't know how much that is gonna happen. My mom is like me, she doesn't like music either but she does follow her tradition about dressing up on the wedding day which I...
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    Question: Husband Making a Wife do Sin?

    Sister I do say no but he doesn't listen to me. He thinks because he's the husband i must listen to him. I always say no to the masturbating and he persists on asking. I was gonna say no to the photo shoots but he said at least do this one thing for me. He said I'm not asking you to be a model...
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    Question: Husband Making a Wife do Sin?

    I don't want to complain about stuff but I'm in this situation and I don't want to sin nor do I want my husband to. I don't intend to back bite or anything I just need some input because according to my dad you're supposed to listen to your husband "even if you're praying and he calls you, your...
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    Question: Pakistani "Muslim" Weddings?

    I know that in Islamic weddings the woman is not supposed to reveal her beauty because the laws of modesty still apply. There's no exception. There's also not supposed to be music and dancing and the like but as some of you might know, Pakistani weddings have all of that. I do not want that at...
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    Question: Why did Allah make hell?

    Thanks for the advice and I do feel it taking over but you should see the state of the world today, they are relying more upon science and are abandoning religion, they think it's a fairytale, they think Allah and such things are made up, asking questions is the only way we can figure out what...
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