Recent content by IluvIslame

I just read in another site that its haram :s I am lost.....but i think what you said makes more sense. It doesnt have to be arabic to be muslim.

I am expecting a baby girl anytime now :) My grand-mother is half turkish and she told me to name her Miral which mean female deer (a doe) Which also means beautiful and a rose. Also I read that the turkish ppl when they address to someone important, like the queen for example, they call her...

Silat ar-raham is very important indeed and you may not be able to enter heaven if you ever do cut your own blood. Thats why I said I would never let my husband do that neither will he ever do that. But what disturbs me the most is his father cut almost all his brothers except for like 2 of his...

Reply to Niqaabis Subhan Allah ppl always blame the woman for any problem. Brother what makes you think that i am coming between the father and son? What makes you think that I am the one that doesn't want my husband to pay his father? Why do you think i am sharing my problem and asking...

Reply to rghtpath Hahaha you're so cute....If the loan was 20 000$ then yes maybe that would be possible to pay him this way. But the loan is MUCH MORE than that and the 1000$ that my husband paid him for about year and a half isn't even covering the loan but it is covering the "nafaqa"...

Reply to Niqaabis I am thinking about my husband AND myself of course. This is a big problem. I had NEVER heard of this kind of treatment between a father and his son. What is the point of having kids and taking care of them and then asking EVERYTHING back? Also he isn't asking for his...

Thanks to Arzafar Thank you so much for this, it was very helpful. Baraka Laho feek

Question to sister Revert2007 You are very right sister revert2007, we arabs are like that. My family NEVER mentioned anything about paying them back. And arab families do continue to support their kids even after they get married. All my arab friends are the same, thats just the way we are...

you know once he bought him a cellphone for his birthday and his father refused it because it's haram to celebrate such occasions. Now that is true but I couldn't believe he rejected the gift!!! It will be very hard to soften his heart plus his father really thinks that he is right and if my...

I used to think the way you think and i told my husband (my fiance back then) to try and talk to him and make him understand but my husband used to always tell me that he cant talk to him because his father doesn't want to listen....whats in his head will stay that way. Do you know how many...

he is arab He is arab sadly and so am and I never heard this

Assalamu 3alaikom brothers and sisters, I recently got married and Al Hamdolilah I am extremely happy with my husband. We are a young couple. My husband is 23 and I am 21 years old. So you can imagine that we are starting our life and trying to build our future. The problem is the father of...

Assalamu 3alaikom brothers and sisters, I recently got married and Al Hamdolilah I am extremely happy with my husband. We are a young couple. My husband is 23 and I am 21 years old. So you can imagine that we are just starting our life and trying to build our future. The problem is the father...