Recent content by suhailq

  1. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    WAS Thanks for your advise I'll speak to somebody pious..and inshalla try to pray more..
  2. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    Thanks, but if somebody is so bend and your own self tells you that you're not doing anything wrong, there is no way to stop that person, and she'll say marry again , no problems, but I don't feel good about it and I think my boys will neither..But you never know..
  3. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    W'As Salaam Let's be practical here, firstly Children are important as I was responsible to bring them to life. The question is will a step mother take care of them. Also where will I get time energy to find a women at this stage of my life, when I'm 40 ,that loves me and my Children ? Also I...
  4. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    Assalamu Aleikum Thanks for the suggestion- yes I'm trying to manage the problem. The fundamental thing is how people take decisons given the choices they've. If I put myself in my wife shoes I'd have taken a middle path. Anyway the decison that she has taken is to split the family for next 3-5...
  5. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    Thanks for your words of advise. I believe she's a good person by heart and I'll handle the situation through prayers and somehow learn to coupe with separation
  6. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    Dear Sister Thanks for your reply. Its hard to find such a pious women in todays world, its easier said than done. But Inshalla I'll devote myself into prayers as a healing mechanism and raising my son and thinking positive. But you must face the fact that Coping with separation can be one of...
  7. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    Its not possible for me to move there, as I've a good job here and I've to provide for the whole family. I've always worked hard for my family and why God choose this for me. She expects me to behave normally with the hope I find a job there. I'm hate women....now, you get hurt when someone you...
  8. S

    To Coupe with Separation- Bring family together again

    I'm marries with two sons 10 and 4 years, living in Middle East for last 7 years. My wife is a doctor and always wanted to study further. I always supported her with this and she's has been trying to get her MRCOG membership but could not clear the exam. So the options before her were to go for...
Top