Believer1985
Junior Member
Asalam alaikum everyone!
I am a new user here and would like to introduce an issue I am having trouble with:
On August 16th 2004, I was "forced" into a marriage (I was 19). It wasn't totally forced, actually. I was in Pakistan because my brother got married and while I was there, my sister-in-laws mother asked me if I wanted to marry one of her sons. I obviously refused but she, plus the other house residents kept talking to me for the entire month I was there. (You won't believe how much I missed England!) To cut a long story short, she got her own way as I was under so much pressure, and I was "married" the night my flight was due back to London. I didn't spend any time with him at all. I thought it wasn't even a marriage, but an engagement, which is partly why I went through with it, cos I thought I could break it up any day.
But now it seems to be going on and he has applied for a visa to come here. He got the visa and he'll be here Monday August 20th.. I am so scared! My parents disagree with me and I'm scare of my dad so much. 2 1/2 years of my life have gone to waste study-wise and I am actually just a depressed girl and feel like nobody would even notice if I was to disappear.
Thanks for reading this. What are your views on arranged/unhappy marriages? what should i do?? I pray to Allah for Him to help me!
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I am a new user here and would like to introduce an issue I am having trouble with:
On August 16th 2004, I was "forced" into a marriage (I was 19). It wasn't totally forced, actually. I was in Pakistan because my brother got married and while I was there, my sister-in-laws mother asked me if I wanted to marry one of her sons. I obviously refused but she, plus the other house residents kept talking to me for the entire month I was there. (You won't believe how much I missed England!) To cut a long story short, she got her own way as I was under so much pressure, and I was "married" the night my flight was due back to London. I didn't spend any time with him at all. I thought it wasn't even a marriage, but an engagement, which is partly why I went through with it, cos I thought I could break it up any day.
But now it seems to be going on and he has applied for a visa to come here. He got the visa and he'll be here Monday August 20th.. I am so scared! My parents disagree with me and I'm scare of my dad so much. 2 1/2 years of my life have gone to waste study-wise and I am actually just a depressed girl and feel like nobody would even notice if I was to disappear.
Thanks for reading this. What are your views on arranged/unhappy marriages? what should i do?? I pray to Allah for Him to help me!
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