Why do women cry?

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Why women cry

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Why women cry

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I need to" she said.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly.

The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh (scholar). "He surely knows the answer", he thought.

"Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?"

The Shaikh answered: "When Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

"You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

The little boy got the answer and never asked the question again.
 

Delyan

Junior Member
wonderful story mashallah, I alsogot the answer of my question !
thank u for sharing

sis delyan
wa saalam
 

samiha

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Staff member
Assalamu alaykum.

Jazakallahu Khayr sis.

That story is very sweet, I luved it.
 

Durriyyah

Forever Student
Very beautiful! I'm sending this to all my female friends. It's nice to hear that a tear is a sign of strength instead of weakness!!
 

shabnum

Junior Member
:salam2:

aww that is really nice, mashallah.

i doent understand sometimes why i cry for no reason,

ohnestly sisters i sometimes get really emtional and start crying, specialy when its time of the month for a woman:SMILY23:
 

Sister S

Junior Member
:salam2: Sisters

Time of the Month is a very emotional time for us women.
Sister Shabnum you're right, i think every woman cries when this time comes.
the smallest thing can start us off or maybe we just start crying for no reason at all, we just want to cry.

:jazaak: for sharing the story with us.

:blackhijab:

:wasalam:
 

shabnum

Junior Member
woman go through so much pain and they can bare it some how, i get really bad stomach pains and cant get back up i just lay there crying with my hot water bottle towrds my stomach and pray in my heart allah ease this pain,

and the pain is just so bad so pain ful, gets me really down.:SMILY309:
 

shabnum

Junior Member
:salam2:

sister ohnestly at times my anger becomes really bad specialy when its time of the month,

its so hard to control it, then i just rember allah and then cool it off, but i end up ill so quickly when its time of the month,

i just cry and get emtional and think to my self am i the only one is just weird or something.
 

Sister S

Junior Member
:wasalam:

Sis lol u definitely not the only one who feels like that.
i get really moody with everyone and if i have bad cramps and someone asks me something, i just shout at them. i regret it later on lol.

i have pains before my periods so i know im going to start.

Yeah, the hot water bottle really helps.

Sometimes i think, why do women suffer all the time, why not the men?
 

Durriyyah

Forever Student
:salam2:

Men have to suffer from being around us during that time!! Plus they are jerks if they aren't super nice to us when we are crabby during that time!! LOL

:wasalam:
 

samiha

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Staff member
assalamu alaykum.

After every hardship there is ease... and for every hardship a person is relieved of some of their sins.

So... concluding from that, inshallah we are losing sins during this monthly hardship. :)

Wassalam.
 

shabnum

Junior Member
i know sis lol why not men
thats why lol men say why do woman shout for no reason :SMILY231: well its a miracle i gess

i know even before am due to be on i get bad pains
, well i shout at every one 2 and then i do regret it later lol

its funny at times doent realise

omg that bad thing is sometimes im not even due for 2 months or so and i start late thats always happen to me.

that makes my emtions even more worse.

last time i stoped for 5 months i went throw so much stress and agani it was really bad.
 

Sister S

Junior Member
ive always been on time alhamdulillah.

i really feel for you not starting for a couple of months the pain must be 10 times worse.:frown:
 

shabnum

Junior Member
whitefyre men are jerks i gess your talking from a excperience :astag:

we all have different opinions

in islam we have to be nice kind to each other i gess you know that right :SMILY231:

hope i have not offended you sister
 
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