all muslim guys please answer me

abuayesha

Junior Member
:salam2:
I want to ask why after a guy after embracing Islam &got a beard,they don't treat well with people.thanks God i am in islamic country(Egypt),but unfourtunatly about 90% who have a beard cheat us &not work well&are very lazy all time they read Quran&not work during day&when they are at their offices also go to mosque &only come to sign at the end of the day......why this happen.i am sorry to say that if i wasn't muslim&wasn't know that islam is not that i would take a bad impression from those people

also ladies who where viel(nekab)after they wear it they are not taking care of their personal cleaning.....i am a dentist &unfourtunatly most of them have bad oral &health care


Muslims Please we want to stop that impression Islam is a beautiful faith we by that are hurting our Prophet :saw:

:wasalam:

Regarding the brothers who do not perform their duty are answerable as they are being paid by either the Government or the Company where they work. It is like a trader weighing the crops when buying with one balance (Meezaan) and weighing same when selling with another balance which is defective. They are indeed at sin.

Concerning cleanliness brothers and sisters discussed a lot.

I would like to suggest that you being a dentist could have some handbills printed and distribute among your patients highlighting Islaamic teachings regarding cleanliness.

Inshaa Allaah you will see the result.

Allaah will reward you.

Wassalaam
 

ahmed3711

Junior Member
my sister,

am egyptian also and living in egypt.from my point of view i think this kind of people you'r talking about.the way they taught religion was wrong means their teachers in islam were ignorant.they gave them part of the course and they didn't know something about the other part (i mean they know a part in quran and they forgot the other part or didn't know something about the other part) they are looking to the hereafter only and they forgot something called life also they forgot that they are humans.they got to make balance between everything.i think life is the bridge to make you pass to paradise also but thats because of the wrong way in teaching and as i said this is my point of view

salam to all
 

hassana elkoussi

Junior Member
:salam2:
I want to ask why after a guy after embracing Islam &got a beard,they don't treat well with people.thanks God i am in islamic country(Egypt),but unfourtunatly about 90% who have a beard cheat us &not work well&are very lazy all time they read Quran&not work during day&when they are at their offices also go to mosque &only come to sign at the end of the day......why this happen.i am sorry to say that if i wasn't muslim&wasn't know that islam is not that i would take a bad impression from those people

also ladies who where viel(nekab)after they wear it they are not taking care of their personal cleaning.....i am a dentist &unfourtunatly most of them have bad oral &health care


Muslims Please we want to stop that impression Islam is a beautiful faith we by that are hurting our Prophet :saw:


:salam2: sister

I don't mean any offence but I think you're not being fair by saying that 90% of bearded brothers and sisters in niqab are dishonest and "dirty" .I think you know quite well why these sisters have put on niqab: just to please Allah swt despite all the difficulties they are faced with. You know they are often ridiculed, often prevented from getting into certain places without a lot of security measures , etc... The fact that you have come across just a few who are not quite conscientious or observing cleanliness doesn't mean that the vast majority is like that. I do not wear niqab by the way, but I do know a lot of sisters in niqab and bearded brothers who have excelled in their field of specialisation and are even regarded as role models.
Pls let's not give bad impressions about our fellow brothers and sisters in Islam and about our countries. Again no offence meant. Salam

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Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
Assalamu Alaykum,

We must have patience and talk kindly to people and explain to them their Deen properly.

Islam is complete, Alif to Ya ( A-Z ) and is perfect. It is for us to implement it all, in totality.

The foundations that people have, are unfortunately not sound!

Niqab, big beards, means nothing, if the person's Aqeedah, belief in Allah, obedience to the Prophet :saw:, clinging to the Sunnah is not present ! or has problems. You can go to any department store or shopping place in the West and see a man with big white beard near the time of 25th December! He or even She, has a good beard, although it can be easily pulled off!

Likewise, there people who look from outside pious and good, but, their hearts are of stone. Only Allah knows what is the reality of their condition.

The worst thing is that of Shirk, Kufr and Bid'ah.

This is why, we must always make sure our own beliefs and that of those around us is correct. -

Here, knowing Tawheed necessitates knowing Shirk. The Major Shirk, which is associating partners with Allah and the Minor Shirk, which is Riyaa' Showing off.

Then there are the sins which is linked to Riyaa', which is arrogance and thinking that you are better than others. Jealousy and Envy in the haram! Gossipping and backbiting!

These things damage people's behaviour and character, to the extent, it re-enforces a culture of such problems! whether a group culture or on a widerscale of similar behaviour. That is why, often you will not just find one person who behaves bad, but others who are close to this person! Astaghfirullah Al Azeem.

Likewise, the same can be said about those who are humble, kind and honest and who think carefully about each and every word they hear, they say and think!

None of us are perfect, but we must emulate the one who was the most perfect, as much as we can. Step by step, our beloved Rasul Allah, Muhammad :saw: . The Al Amin, (trustworthy) the Seal of the Prophets! THe one who had the best character! The best man to have ever walked this earth!

Please, my dear brothers and sisters, we need work hard on ourselves. There is so much we need to do! How can we spend our time doing futile things and wasting our time? Before we point our fingers at other Muslims, lets point them at ourselves, and improve ourselves..

If we wish to help others, the beginning point is to help ourselves. We need start learning Islam properly and purely. Memorise Quran and Hadith, understand it from the way that the early Muslims understood! Stick to the Ulema who are known for their wisdom and adherance to the narrations and beliefs of the early Muslims! Such as Shaykh Muhammad Nasir ud-Deen al-Albani, Ibn Baz, Ibn Uthaimeen (rahimahumullah). They were great pillars of knowledge among us.. and their students are alive today and around the world and who teach and are full of wisdom. Their books and many lectures are translated.

These days, people turn to the lesser known or even non-scholars for their learning. Or from those who are totally opposed to the way of the Quran and the Sunnah! This is the reason for the failure of the Ummah.

Allah help us, guide us to the Straight path, and make us amongst those who are loved by Allah and amongst the best of his slaves, Amin
 

endodontics77

Junior Member
re reply

Assalamu Alaykum



None of us are perfect, but we must emulate the one who was the most perfect, as much as we can. Step by step, our beloved Rasul Allah, Muhammad :saw: . The Al Amin, (trustworthy) the Seal of the Prophets! THe one who had the best character! The best man to have ever walked this earth!

Please, my dear brothers and sisters, we need work hard on ourselves. There is so much we need to do! How can we spend our time doing futile things and wasting our time? Before we point our fingers at other Muslims, lets point them at ourselves, and improve ourselves..

:salam2: sister


Pls let's not give bad impressions about our fellow brothers and sisters in Islam and about our countries. Again no offence meant. Salam
:salam2:
When i wrote the post i was waiting a solution to this serious problems&to face our faults is not give bad impression to others.they even ll respect us because we face our problems ,then we can't forget that we have to be jealous on Islam&to make it not shown by bad way&finally i want to thank the reply that give me very lovely answer to make printable notes to the patients in a lovely way as i think it ll be suitable.........
 

endodontics77

Junior Member
THANKS

:wasalam:


I would like to suggest that you being a dentist could have some handbills printed and distribute among your patients highlighting Islaamic teachings regarding cleanliness.

Inshaa Allaah you will see the result.

Allaah will reward you.

Wassalaam
:ma:Thank you for the nice suggestion that i ll begin to do.........
WE CAN DO THIS :inshallah:
 
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