PRAY FOR ME PLEASE!

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colleen.eha

New Member
Salam all,
So, I lost my job. I have to move to America and leave my husband. Probably for a year. I applied for a new job where I'm going to live in the States and I'm asking for prayers - it really means a lot to me!
Also, my grandfather was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. They removed a tumor and he's going through chemotherapy now.
Please pray for me.
InshAllah, everything will be okay!
:tti_sister:
 
Amina 1

Amina 1

Junior Member
:salam2:



:tti_sister: May Allah make it easy for you and may you overcome all of your challenges in this life Inshallah.:tti_sister:
 
fada_all

fada_all

Junior Member
colleen.eha said:
Salam all,
So, I lost my job. I have to move to America and leave my husband. Probably for a year. I applied for a new job where I'm going to live in the States and I'm asking for prayers - it really means a lot to me!
Also, my grandfather was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. They removed a tumor and he's going through chemotherapy now.
Please pray for me.
InshAllah, everything will be okay!
:tti_sister:
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salam alikom

oh may allah makes things easy for you ,so as to find a new job quickly,and may allah swt bless you grandfather with a soon and complete recovery and heal him:ma: and ease hid pain insha allah taala..allah's mercy is so wide sister..sobhanaho wa taala and praise be to him swt..

you will be sure insha allah in my dou'a sister...:tti_sister:

salam alikom
 
ruki4eva

ruki4eva

Muslim Unity...
colleen.eha said:
Salam all,
So, I lost my job. I have to move to America and leave my husband. Probably for a year. I applied for a new job where I'm going to live in the States and I'm asking for prayers - it really means a lot to me!
Also, my grandfather was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. They removed a tumor and he's going through chemotherapy now.
Please pray for me.
InshAllah, everything will be okay!
:tti_sister:
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:salam2:
Allah will never leave you empty May Allah replace everthing you lost inshallah he will give you something greater. May he give you a new job soon, May Allah give your grandfather shifaa (steady recovery) May Allah make things easy for you Ameen inshallah everything will be ok
:tti_sister: i will keep you in my duas take care
:wasalam:
 
kubra_2002

kubra_2002

Allahu Akubar!!!!!
sorry

:salam2: sister..sorry to hear that.may Allah help you sister and may Allah help u and your grandfather..inshallah..your in my du'aa inshallah
 
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yoko337

Junior Member
asalamu alaikom sister

:hijabi:May Allah fill your heart his love and patiens. Insha Allah your are muslim and you are my sister i will remamber you in my dua, May Allah the most mercyful and the most forgivness make thing easy for you and for you grandfather:tti_sister:
 
IbnAhmad

IbnAhmad

Junior Member
salaam

sister you are in our du'as...may allah swt make everything easy and may grant you more than you have lost...amiin

have belief sis..inshaAllah everything will be fine...keep smiling hehe :) :)

wassalam
 
Hard Rock Moslem

Hard Rock Moslem

I'm your brother
La Hawla wa la Quwwata illa Billaah....may Allah make things easy for you. I really sad to hear this but my honest advise is pls do not stay apart from your husband. Sorry sister if I said anything wrong.
 
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Asiya-sparkles

Junior Member
colleen.eha said:
Salam all,
So, I lost my job. I have to move to America and leave my husband. Probably for a year. I applied for a new job where I'm going to live in the States and I'm asking for prayers - it really means a lot to me!
Also, my grandfather was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. They removed a tumor and he's going through chemotherapy now.
Please pray for me.
InshAllah, everything will be okay!
:tti_sister:
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Asalam alaikom wa rahma tullah wa burrahktohu,

Dear sister,
I am sorry to read of your circumstances and of course pray that Allah bestows His blessings, guidance and mercy upon your grandfather. ameen.

Please allow me to tentatively offer you some knowledge which inshAllah I am sure you will be grateful for.

Allah has made Islam a blessing for all time and it is not obligatory for you to seek work, it is the resposibility of your husband - even if you are able to earn more. Please see here:
http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=3&ID=7355&CATE=443

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=12&ID=4337&CATE=205

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=1497&CATE=89

Spending for wife's comfort

It is narrated by Abu-Darda (radhiallaho anho) that the Prophet (sallallaho alaihi wasallam) instructed me: "Spend as much as possible upon your family. . . " (Kanz)

This is indeed a source of encouragement to spend for the comfort of women. The husband is also under an obligation to maintain his wife irrespective of whether she is rich or poor .
Those who are not generous with their wives should take heed of this advice.


further areas of concern in your post are both the fiqh of leaving your husband for a year & travelling without a mahram. Please be careful dear sister & see a reputable scholar (may I suggest you attend the livelink on Sunday with sheikh Assim al Hakeem?)

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=3&ID=3738&CATE=383

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=1993&CATE=143

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?id=1003

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=2364&CATE=100


And ma'shAllah here is a very good collection of duas, you should pray (if you haven't done so already) Istikharah and you can also offer duas for your grandfather too.

http://www.islamic-knowledge.com/Hisn_al_Muslim/Hisn_Al_Muslim.htm#Alphabetical Index

May Allah t'ala bless your household with much good in this life and the one to follow. Ameen.

Jazak alak khairun wa barak Allah feekom
Fi amanillah
 
I

IHearIslam

make dua 4 ma finals
:wasalam:

:tti_sister: Ya Allah help your servent and make things easy for her. Ya Allah help her Grandfather get through this and have mercy on her. Ya Allah you are the ONE who said in your GLORIOUS Qur'an *call onto me and I will ACCEPT* Ya Allah I ask you to accept our DUAS and be our help. Ya Allah forgive our sins; the ones we do intentionaly and the one we do UNintentionally. Ameen Ya rab,Ya Allah,Ya rahman Ya khafir zunuub. InshaAllah everyting we'll go according to Allah's will and if you put your TRUST in Him, He will surely help you.
:hearts: Allah hafiz NOW and ALWAYS:)
 
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colleen.eha

New Member
Asiya-sparkles said:
Asalam alaikom wa rahma tullah wa burrahktohu,

Dear sister,
I am sorry to read of your circumstances and of course pray that Allah bestows His blessings, guidance and mercy upon your grandfather. ameen.

Please allow me to tentatively offer you some knowledge which inshAllah I am sure you will be grateful for.

Allah has made Islam a blessing for all time and it is not obligatory for you to seek work, it is the resposibility of your husband - even if you are able to earn more. Please see here:
http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=3&ID=7355&CATE=443

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=12&ID=4337&CATE=205

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=1497&CATE=89

Spending for wife's comfort

It is narrated by Abu-Darda (radhiallaho anho) that the Prophet (sallallaho alaihi wasallam) instructed me: "Spend as much as possible upon your family. . . " (Kanz)

This is indeed a source of encouragement to spend for the comfort of women. The husband is also under an obligation to maintain his wife irrespective of whether she is rich or poor .
Those who are not generous with their wives should take heed of this advice.


further areas of concern in your post are both the fiqh of leaving your husband for a year & travelling without a mahram. Please be careful dear sister & see a reputable scholar (may I suggest you attend the livelink on Sunday with sheikh Assim al Hakeem?)

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=3&ID=3738&CATE=383

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=1993&CATE=143

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?id=1003

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=2364&CATE=100


And ma'shAllah here is a very good collection of duas, you should pray (if you haven't done so already) Istikharah and you can also offer duas for your grandfather too.

http://www.islamic-knowledge.com/Hisn_al_Muslim/Hisn_Al_Muslim.htm#Alphabetical Index

May Allah t'ala bless your household with much good in this life and the one to follow. Ameen.

Jazak alak khairun wa barak Allah feekom
Fi amanillah
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Subhan Allah for the internet and HamduAllah for all the information!
Thanks very much, I'll look through these.
Thanks everyone, from the bottom of my heart.
 
allah is with me

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
colleen.eha said:
Salam all,
So, I lost my job. I have to move to America and leave my husband. Probably for a year. I applied for a new job where I'm going to live in the States and I'm asking for prayers - it really means a lot to me!
Also, my grandfather was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. They removed a tumor and he's going through chemotherapy now.
Please pray for me.
InshAllah, everything will be okay!
:tti_sister:
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inshallah sister, you will be in my prayers
 
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Asiya-sparkles

Junior Member
colleen.eha said:
Subhan Allah for the internet and HamduAllah for all the information!
Thanks very much, I'll look through these.
Thanks everyone, from the bottom of my heart.
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Assalam alaikom wa rahman tullah wa burrahktohu,

May Allah keep you safe always dear sister, inshAllah I will add some hadiths for you as well, in truth we live for the sake of Allah, and Alhamdulillah, whatever good we do Allah rewards it, whatever we give up for the sake of Allah subhan Allah, He will recommpense us from where we can never imagine!

(9) Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-'As: Allah's Apostle said to me, "O 'Abdullah! Have I not been informed that you fast during the day and offer prayers all the night." 'Abdullah replied, "Yes, O Allah's Apostle!" The Prophet said, "Don't do that; fast for few days and then give it up for few days, offer prayers and also sleep at night, as your body has a right on you, and your wife has a right on you, and your guest has a right on you. And it is sufficient for you to fast three days in a month, as the reward of a good deed is multiplied ten times, so it will be like fasting throughout the year." I insisted (on fasting) and so I was given a hard instruction. I said, "O Allah's Apostle! I have power." The Prophet said, "Fast like the fasting of the Prophet David and do not fast more than that." I said, "How was the fasting of the Prophet of Allah, David?" He said, "Half of the year," (i.e. he used to fast on every alternate day). Afterwards when 'Abdullah became old, he used to say, "It would have been better for me if I had accepted the permission of the Prophet (which he gave me i.e. to fast only three days a month)." (Book #31, Hadith #196) sahih al Bukhari

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=3&ID=4296&CATE=445

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=2364&CATE=100

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?id=2360

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?ID=5932

InshAllah the basis of marriage is primarily a mercy from Allah to guard ourselves from that which is haram and there are some schools that especially mention that neither a husband or wife should be made to wait longer than 4 nights without intimacy (obviously this is extended due to menstruation, the 40 days post natal (irrespective of whether bleeding has ended or not) & illness)

May Allah give you a way out that increases the blessings upon you, your marriage and results in pious offspring, and may they be the coolness of your eyes. Ameen
 
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AISHA14

allah is my lord
colleen.eha said:
Salam all,
So, I lost my job. I have to move to America and leave my husband. Probably for a year. I applied for a new job where I'm going to live in the States and I'm asking for prayers - it really means a lot to me!
Also, my grandfather was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. They removed a tumor and he's going through chemotherapy now.
Please pray for me.
InshAllah, everything will be okay!
:tti_sister:
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:salam2:
don't worry sis our prayers will a;ways help you Allah is great ,may ALLAH give you the strength to face all this worldly problems with courage ameen


:salam2:
 
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Münadi

New Member
ALLAH is with us.You are not alone. ALLAH will help you ı beleive that.Maybe this is your exams you should be patient pls and you know pray is the most important things. dont worry my sister look around in the this page you have a lot of brother and sister ı hope we will go to heaven patien pls
 
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