A Cry from A Chat Victim - good lesson for us all

[ummu thany]

First off everyone can refrain from saying how sad the story is because it wont help the sister.


Sister ive known someone who went through a similar experience.
The best thing for you to do is to tell your parents. You are young and they will be able to handle the situation better. I know that it sounds scary but you cannot keep this from them.

They may be angry and even possibly beat you but they will do what is best for you.

Secondly, how can you consider marrying a man who is threatening you? If he can threaten you then he is also guilty of the same crime. so he cannot do anything by defaming you because he committed the same action with you.

Trust Allah and do what He says. He is not your mehram so do not talk to him. continue to pray and read quran. Allah will guide you if you turn to Him.

sometimes in life we are not aware of the consequences but when we do face them we learn from them and thats what brings us back to Allah. and that is a blessing because this is a test for you. You can either turn to the path of Allah or turn to the path of the kuffar. In the end if you turn to Allah no matter how he defames you it will be of your benefit because Allah will reward you if you rely on him and perform your obligations as a muslim.
please sister follow my advice and stop talking to him and just tell your parents. After hardship comes ease, it is Allahs promise to us

I will make dua for you.

:salam2:
its not me. Pls read the post again. sorry for the inconvenice.

 

[ummu thany]

:salam 2 UMMU THANY.
One of the great thing is that you are aware of the mistake you did .we r all weak and shaitan is always on our way . you are not someone to be hated.we r all sinners. But our rabb is ghafu rur raheem.ask allaah's forgiveness.no doubt ,be assured you will be forgiven. be frank to your parent.they will pardon you. ask them to beseach allaah for his help.don't mind too much of
what will happen here ,moreover think of the world after . may allaah helps you to get fredom from this chain of shaitaan.
May allaah protect us from shaitaan who is our open ennemy.

:salam2:
oooooooooops not meeeeeee. pls read the post again. sorry for the inconvenice.

 

[amirah80]

As-salamu Alaikum

Jazak Allah Khair for the post. This is very beneficial for people who converse with the opposite gender through the internet or many who may think about doing it. Alot of the times when people get involved in doing this they have excuses of why its ok to persue this conversations because there innocent and their intentions start out good. Then long and behold after time it can cause alot of fitnah and progress into more after time as demonstrated in this letter. Now the sister in the letter is put in a compromising situation that could have been avoided from the beginning. But, now since the problem has occured she just has to repent and deal with whatever the consequences are and avoid continuing to converse with this man. The story is sad indeed and hopefully brothers and sisters can learn from someone elses mistake without having to endure all the trouble themselves.

Was-Salam Amirah

 

[Jannah03]

men like that should fear their lord before they even fathom doing something like this, but it seems like stuff like this happens everyday

 

[Jannah03]

wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

JazakiAllahu khair dear sister for sharing this story with us. La Hawlawala Quwwata Illa Billaah!

Is this the situation of Ummah and no one is still caring about it? Sub uhaanallah. For how long are we waiting like this?????

Also I want to add something. This is something happened to another sister and not our TTI sister. She just shared this with us, so that we may gain some thing.

wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

remember bro, we must change WITHIN ourselves before Allah changes our situation. the ummahs aspect of tawheed and taqwa is not where it should be. had this man had knowledge and fear of his lord, thus letting shaytan ignite his desires then this would not have happened Allahu alim