IbnAdam77
Travelling towards my grave.
wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
MashaAllah this is great. I meant GREAT. Yeah this is how Islamic debate should be. See how beautiful this is! So smooth and to the point.
Okey I have voted in Option Number 4. That means I agree that our children needs this when they do something really bad.
That's the point. If my child do not do Salah even after explaining him it politely when he is 10, I will beat him making sure that he is not hurt inshaAllah. In Islam, beating is not done to hurt the child, but to make sure he know that what he did was really wrong.
Rasoolullah (sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam) said, "Order your children with salaah at the age of seven and beat them (about it) at the age of ten."
Sunan Abu Daud vol.1
'Ulama says in the Explanation of this Hadith that it means we should beat them (without hurting) if he do not do Salah at the age of 10, after telling them very politely repeatedly.
As per me, I have a lovely mom who hates to beat her son. LOL. Only one day I remember that she came after me taking a dried papaya leaf (guess how strong it will be.....LOL) when I did something bad (I do not remember very well why, but I think that is because I did not attend Quran Class and went to play that day). After running and running, I stopped in full of fear knowing that she is REALLY ANGRY unlike she was before. So I stopped and started crying. She did not hit me and never spoke until we went back home. That's I think when I was at the age of 9.
What I mostly remember is that every time I do something bad, she says, "I will beat you hard on the Beating Day!" Hahaha.......but still that day never came and I am 20 now. Yeah BIG. One year ago, I asked her about that day and all of us were having a really good laugh. At last, she said, "How can I beat you O my son when I love my children?"
So up there concludes my choice from all.
InshaAllah all of our children will be brought up on the strong Platform of Tawheed.
wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
MashaAllah this is great. I meant GREAT. Yeah this is how Islamic debate should be. See how beautiful this is! So smooth and to the point.
Okey I have voted in Option Number 4. That means I agree that our children needs this when they do something really bad.
That's the point. If my child do not do Salah even after explaining him it politely when he is 10, I will beat him making sure that he is not hurt inshaAllah. In Islam, beating is not done to hurt the child, but to make sure he know that what he did was really wrong.
Rasoolullah (sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam) said, "Order your children with salaah at the age of seven and beat them (about it) at the age of ten."
Sunan Abu Daud vol.1
'Ulama says in the Explanation of this Hadith that it means we should beat them (without hurting) if he do not do Salah at the age of 10, after telling them very politely repeatedly.
As per me, I have a lovely mom who hates to beat her son. LOL. Only one day I remember that she came after me taking a dried papaya leaf (guess how strong it will be.....LOL) when I did something bad (I do not remember very well why, but I think that is because I did not attend Quran Class and went to play that day). After running and running, I stopped in full of fear knowing that she is REALLY ANGRY unlike she was before. So I stopped and started crying. She did not hit me and never spoke until we went back home. That's I think when I was at the age of 9.
What I mostly remember is that every time I do something bad, she says, "I will beat you hard on the Beating Day!" Hahaha.......but still that day never came and I am 20 now. Yeah BIG. One year ago, I asked her about that day and all of us were having a really good laugh. At last, she said, "How can I beat you O my son when I love my children?"
So up there concludes my choice from all.
InshaAllah all of our children will be brought up on the strong Platform of Tawheed.wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
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