thariq2005
Praise be to Allah!
Bro Thariq your post was great advice and the manner was excellent
Barakalluhu feek
Barakallahu feekum, all praise is due to Allah subhana wa t'ala
Bro Thariq your post was great advice and the manner was excellent
Barakalluhu feek
i wish there were more people in the world like the brother who originally wrote this post. what more would a girl want that a pious husband?
Brother you are doing teh right thing and please do not sacrifice ur iman for anyone.Perhaps she is not good enough for you.There is no such thing as moderate muslim and we must sacrfice our iman for others.
You are such a wonderful muslim and please search a woman who can take you to jannah.a solehah woman will never complaint to all the above things.
Should I compromise my principles? She describes herself as a "moderate" Muslim. I am just Sunni - and obey the Sunnah as I am taught to.
I'm not quite sure which way to go here.
(If this should be in the Brothers Only area I apologize; feel free to move it if so).
Asalaamu alaikum
I've been talking to a sister in another country. I thought things were going OK until I suggested we make arrangements for me to meet her.
She wrote me a very long email saying she feels I may be "too strict". She listed examples such as me fearing riba (I am wanting to get out of my mortgage), me not listening to music, and that I am strict about hijab (I would rather my wife not wear pants outside the house - let alone stretch pants). She was even bothered when I asked if her father was OK with us emailing (I've talked to other sisters online before about marriage and their walis were ALWAYS copied in the emails, with this sister he wasn't).
The brothers at my masjid told me that had a woman told them what she told me they would be flattered. And that they would probably move on.
Should I compromise my principles? She describes herself as a "moderate" Muslim. I am just Sunni - and obey the Sunnah as I am taught to.
I'm not quite sure which way to go here.
i totally agree with you sister..it is very difficult to get a pious husband in these times..