Assalamualakum Everyone
Many People who has read my theads in the first of my threads know that i have been going through alot at a young age.
I have never been a practicing Muslim until after this last ramadan when i could no longer look for help except Islam And Alhumdulilah after that ramadan Allah Answered my prayer's and changed many things for the better and fixed many issues i was facing....
But one problem slowly rising is actually my father. If you dont know many Bengali,Indian, and pakistani parents are very serious about education and grades (Im currently 10th grade). My Grade Average is around a B and i try hard to keep it up to please my father but its never enough for him. And whenever he does yell at me i do not talk back because in Islam you have to try your Best to show no frustration with your parents, And when a person asked the prophet (Saw) how to become pious he answered back "Do not become angry,do not become angry, and do not become angry". I always tell him i try my best but it doesnt seem like that doesnt work for him.
Well recently my sister in law asked me to go rock climbing with her and i told her im not really feeling that well and she and my dad made a big deal out of it. My sister in law does not follow Islam or any religion and i really dont like spending time with her she even eats pork. I tell my father that i dont really want to be around her but he gets angry at me and then today he told me that im going to become a "Stupid Religious person" in my language and that really affected me alot because i only recently wanted to get closer to Islam. He said i will become a stupid religious person like my brother, my brother is also a practicing muslim like me and teaches me many things about Islam. When he told me that i just stayed quiet like i said but inside i wanted to talk back and tell him he's wrong but even if i did that he would just respond with another insult. My father even told me some time ago that my studies have to be over Religion or was implying that but then i told him will a degree get you into Jannah? He responded back with just insults saying im going to become stupid. Recently ever since i became a practicing Muslim and after i did my first Khutba he thinks im friends with like terrorists and keeps warning me about not to be friends with Muslims like that and i keep telling him my friends are not like that they are like me. They just follow Islam like i do. But he keeps on telling me that there are kids disguised as FBI and make people terrorists i think hes taking it way too far. But he doesnt listen to me. My brother even told me when 9/11 happened our father said when people ask you what religion you are dont say that you are Muslim.
I make Dua's For Him but other than that i dont know what to do, My mother is very sick and my father does not treat her very well...
Jazakallah Khair everyone you guys have no idea how much it means to me when you guys post and May Allah Bless all of you
Many People who has read my theads in the first of my threads know that i have been going through alot at a young age.
I have never been a practicing Muslim until after this last ramadan when i could no longer look for help except Islam And Alhumdulilah after that ramadan Allah Answered my prayer's and changed many things for the better and fixed many issues i was facing....
But one problem slowly rising is actually my father. If you dont know many Bengali,Indian, and pakistani parents are very serious about education and grades (Im currently 10th grade). My Grade Average is around a B and i try hard to keep it up to please my father but its never enough for him. And whenever he does yell at me i do not talk back because in Islam you have to try your Best to show no frustration with your parents, And when a person asked the prophet (Saw) how to become pious he answered back "Do not become angry,do not become angry, and do not become angry". I always tell him i try my best but it doesnt seem like that doesnt work for him.
Well recently my sister in law asked me to go rock climbing with her and i told her im not really feeling that well and she and my dad made a big deal out of it. My sister in law does not follow Islam or any religion and i really dont like spending time with her she even eats pork. I tell my father that i dont really want to be around her but he gets angry at me and then today he told me that im going to become a "Stupid Religious person" in my language and that really affected me alot because i only recently wanted to get closer to Islam. He said i will become a stupid religious person like my brother, my brother is also a practicing muslim like me and teaches me many things about Islam. When he told me that i just stayed quiet like i said but inside i wanted to talk back and tell him he's wrong but even if i did that he would just respond with another insult. My father even told me some time ago that my studies have to be over Religion or was implying that but then i told him will a degree get you into Jannah? He responded back with just insults saying im going to become stupid. Recently ever since i became a practicing Muslim and after i did my first Khutba he thinks im friends with like terrorists and keeps warning me about not to be friends with Muslims like that and i keep telling him my friends are not like that they are like me. They just follow Islam like i do. But he keeps on telling me that there are kids disguised as FBI and make people terrorists i think hes taking it way too far. But he doesnt listen to me. My brother even told me when 9/11 happened our father said when people ask you what religion you are dont say that you are Muslim.
I make Dua's For Him but other than that i dont know what to do, My mother is very sick and my father does not treat her very well...
Jazakallah Khair everyone you guys have no idea how much it means to me when you guys post and May Allah Bless all of you
