I was molested by my colleague who is a 40 year old Muslim who has a pregnant wife and 2 children. I'm now trying to look for a new job before quitting this one. But now I still see his face everyday and I hate his guts, with all the rushing to do his prayers and saying Alhamdulillah so loudly whenver he sneezes, and all other things he do now I see as fake and as just an act. If it were the time of Prophet Muhammad SAW, he would be dead by now. I hate him and curse him in my heart everytime I see him, but then I will be in the wrong for cursing him. But it's so hard not to hate him.
I can't focus on my work these days cos of him and cos of the hate. I don't understand why Allah created such a guy like him. How can I ever forgive him
May Allaah give you sabr sister, it must be hard. Just remember that Allaah tests those whom He loves. I know people who have been molested before, it's not a nice situation to be in at all...That man should be hanged. Fortunate for him, he's not living in a time where there is an Islamic State. May Allaah give him what he deserves.
I was reading something about tests and hardships. I want you to read the following sister and I hope it is beneficial to you InshaAllaah:
How is it that Allah can test those who are beloved to Him?
In his explanation of ‘Kitab at-Tawhid,’ Sulayman bin ‘Abdillah bin Muhammad bin ‘Abd al-Wahhab mentioned the hadith of the Prophet:
“If Allah Loves a people, He tests them.”
This hadith is hasan, and was reported by at-Tirmidhi (4/2396). It is also included in ‘Sahih al-Jami” (275).
After explaining some aspects of the hadith, Shaykh Sulayman asked the question: how is it that Allah can test those who are beloved to Him?
Summarizing the words of Ibn Taymiyyah, he answered:
“…because this forces the servant to repent.
Allah tests the servants with the punishments of this world in order that they repent from their sins, as He Said: {“…that He may make them taste a bit of that which they have done, in order that they may return.”} [ar-Rum; 41] So, for whoever is granted the chance to repent by Allah as the result of an act of disobedience, this is from the greatest of blessings of Allah upon him, because this will result in his invoking and supplicating to Allah with submission and humility. Because of this, Allah has condemned those who do not lean on their Lord, and do not invoke Him when crisis occurs: {“And indeed, We seized them with punishment. But, they did not humble themselves to their Lord, nor did they invoke Him with submission.”} [al-Mu'minun; 76] And supplicating and invoking Allah with humility is from the greatest of blessings, and this blessing is from the greatest paths by which one can rectify his religious practice, as the rectification of one’s religious practice is in his worshipping Allah, alone, depending on Him, and not calling upon any deity besides Him – not a du’a’ of worship, nor a du’a’ of request.
So, if you are granted the chance to perform repentance, which entails worshipping Allah, alone, and you obey His Messengers by doing that which you are commanded, and abandoning that from which you are forbidden, you are from those who worship Allah. And if you are granted the chance to supplicate to Allah – which is to ask Allah for whatever you need, and you ask Him for what will benefit you, and you seek refuge with Him from anything that would harm you – this is from the greatest of Allah’s blessings upon you.
This is usually what happens when a disaster strikes, and if such blessings emerge when crisis strikes, it would only make sense that the people most deserving of this are those who are beloved to Him, and it is upon such people to thank Allah.”
['Taysir al-'Aziz al-Hamid'; p. 353-355]
http://iskandrani.wordpress.com/200...-allah-can-test-those-who-are-beloved-to-him/
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