Praise be to Allah (The Glorified and Exalted).
Brother Ayman1 summed up the intentions of this poster by his quote from the Imam. I understand that this is simply human nature for the general public, to dislike and have a negative opinion of others that are not of your own kind. Most of your prejudice is probably contrived from media reports.
1) The Media:
The national media is controlled by individuals that have a certain agenda. When they report crimes, they are picky about which ones they report and what associations they make. For example, there are hundreds and thousands of crimes committed by Caucasian individuals in the united states and many of them are very violent, such as murders, rapes, etc. For example, in modern times, in one city a Christian Caucasian woman was beheaded by her Christian Caucasian husband and he threw her head into the ocean. In the local city in which the crime was committed, it was reported continuously. However, this very shocking and violent crime was never placed on the national news. Even though in countries such as the United States most crimes are committed by Caucasians, people in the country have a prejudice in believing the criminal element of society are Hispanic and Black Americans. This is due to the medias' bias. Anyone can see this extreme bias in the national american news, by searching local city newspapers and station reports from the United States, one will find numerous cases of Christian Caucasians committing horrid violent crimes, but is never reported by the national news. Why? Because it is an embarrassment and makes Christian Caucasian people appear violent and uncivilized.
2) I remember reading another story of a Christian Caucasian man in Texas that beheaded his neighbor of the same religion and race because she had an illicit relationship with his son. On the subject of relationships with persons young in age. There are numerous cases of rape by incest, father raping his daughters, that occur in the United States among Christian Caucasians. Look at the following statistics:
"One of the nation's leading researchers on child sexual abuse, David Finkelhor, estimates that 1,000,000 Americans are victims of father-daughter incest, and 16,000 new cases occur annually (Finkelhor, 1983). However, Finkelhor's statistics may be significantly low because they are based primarily on accounts of white, middle-class women and may not adequately represent low-income and minority women (Matsakis, 1991)." -National Center for Victims of Crime-->Incest
Not to mention the thousands of cases of Christian Caucasian female teachers and mothers that rape children in their care in the United States. In the state of Washington, during a brief period of time, over 200 male coaches were removed and detained for sexual harassment or molestation of their female school team players.
3) As for violence. In the United States and many non-Muslim nations, there is rampant infanticide. A mass genocide of infants that is masked by a more lack luster term, "abortion." A national embarrassment hidden from the public. The murder of infants. In the United States 1.37 million murders of infants take place every year, approximately 3,700 everyday. 60% are done by Caucasian women. The religious affiliations are the following: Protestants 37.4%, Catholic 31.3%, 18% "Born-again/Evangelical," Jewish 1.3%, no religious affiliation 23.7%. 93% of the murders occur for social reasons (i.e. the child is unwanted or inconvenient)-Statistics Center for Bioethical Reform. Inconvenient infants, Dehumanizing human beings. Isn't that barbarity? How can educated people support such an abomination? To take the life of an innocent infant. Why does the media not report on that and show pictures of heaps of dead infants? Because that would be a national embarrassment, and would make Christian Caucasians appear as uncivilized and barbaric. They support such behavior. Oddly they don't view it as cruelty with their lack of morality, but they like to grin and wink and speak about "child" marriages according to their man-made laws. The Almighty has permitted in His Law, that any individual that reaches puberty, is able to wed and have an intimate relationship. If some one has a problem with that, then let them bring it before the Creator, He is the one that permitted them to have sexual desires and to procreate as such young ages. Would it have been fair of Him to have starved them of engaging in their sexual desires in a permissible relationship, marriage. For example, some naive individuals in the United States believe "abstinence" may be taught to teenagers. That is a foolish thought indeed, no wonder a report came out proving abstinence education in the United States does not work. There are rampant sexual encounters among teenagers starting from the age of 10 and up. The CDC (Center for Disease) reported that 1 out of 4 teenage girls has a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) in the U.S.
Now, Humans in non-industrialized societies, in that agricultural based, have always married their daughters at younger ages. This is because there is no real formal schooling for them to attend. And because economically, the parents cannot afford to take care of them. In the past, all humans lived in agricultural based societies and the lifespan of individuals was low around 30-40, up to 50 for the majority. The invention of antibiotics, blood transfusions, and vaccines have helped to extend the human lifespan. Therefore, it is understandable why humans married young in the past, and unfortunately many people in modern times still live short lifespans, therefore, it is no wonder many of them get married young in modern times for that reason or economics.
Continuing on the topic of violence, there are plenty of resistance militias in Sri Lanka that have used the tactic the poster mentioned. There are also other nations that starve out entire nations by embargo or economic sanctions as well as violent military strikes, taking away the life of numerous innocent men, women, and children. Like what occurs in Palestine, etc. In Iraq, it was said that 500,000 infants died due to the embargo placed on the nation by Christian Caucasians that stopped medical equipment from being given to the nation. Isn't that cruelty and barbarity?
4) As for maids. There was a study conducted by a group of Hispanic Americans, that found that many Hispanic women in the United States, working in the homes of Christian Caucasian americans, faced: rape, sexual molestation or harassment, verbal abuse, physical harm, and had their payments promised withheld, because the Christian Caucasian americans that hired them, knew they were illegal immigrants and would not go to the police. The same was to be said of men who were refused payment after they performed their jobs, but the Christian Caucasian employer knew they were illegal immigrants and refused to pay them because they would not go to the police. Isn't that cruelty?
5) As for women. In the United States, the protection women had in society, that had been established by conservative principles, were stripped away, in the name of greater "freedoms." The result, men sweet talk naive, simple-minded women into having intimate relationships with them which may lead to the women being emotionally scared when the man leaves after he receives his treat or worse for the women, being impregnated. This leads to many young girls dropping out of high school, losing their education (some can't afford college even if they finish high school) because they have a child to deal with. The same happens for older women, they have a child to deal with and no husband. Leading to the largest poor population in the United States--> single mothers.
Lack of education, lack of economic or financial security, and lack of guardian to watch the child. The man escapes free of any responsibility, at least the conservative principles would have forced him to marry the girl before having an intimate relationship and made him financially responsible and eased the burden on the female, but women were fooled into thinking "sexual liberation" is good for them. All it led to was the use of women for mens' sexual pleasure (with boyfriends pressuring women to sleep with them, even if they didn't desire to), women used for advertisements to make money, impoverished single mothers with a lack of quality education or economic security. Isn't that cruelty toward women?
Persons that do not possess any form of wisdom and insight in their manner of thinking do not understand that men and women are naturally sexually drawn to one another. One cannot have a society that is religious and at the same time permits free mixing between the two genders. When a society becomes mixed in public between the two genders, this leads to the destruction of the foundation of society, the family, because of rampant fornication and adultery. This in turn leads to the stripping away of religiosity, due to the infatuation with the opposite gender, and eventually tearing apart the moral fabric of society, with a declination in moral behavior. This is what has occurred in every nation that has allowed the mixing of the genders.
And Allah (The Glorified and Exalted) Knows Best.
~PEACE~
