zainsmommy
Junior Member
Assalamu Aleikom!
Insha'Allah you have applied some of the great advice you received on this thread and are doing well.
I wanted to tell you what I thought reading this...as a mother, as a wife, and a woman...It made me feel sick to my stomach. Only because it brought back such painful memories for me.
Your Mother, the sustainer of your family, has just had the foundation that she stood on pulled right out from under her feet. Alhamdulileh she has you to catch her. You must be strong for your Mother. She will need lots of time to grieve for the loss of her marriage(if it comes to that) and to grieve for the loss of her trust. She will need time to face her fear of uncertainty about her future and figure things out. She will no doubt need much support during this time. Try to be strong for her. I know it will be hard but please try.
As for your Father...I will refrain from commenting at this time, but do think some of the others made some really good points and have given some good advice on the proper thing you should do.
Please remain strong and know that everything happens according to Allah's plan. Though it is not evident now the benefits that will come from this, some time in your future you will see it and your Mother will as well.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May Allah ease the pain you and your family are going through.
Insha'Allah you have applied some of the great advice you received on this thread and are doing well.
I wanted to tell you what I thought reading this...as a mother, as a wife, and a woman...It made me feel sick to my stomach. Only because it brought back such painful memories for me.
Your Mother, the sustainer of your family, has just had the foundation that she stood on pulled right out from under her feet. Alhamdulileh she has you to catch her. You must be strong for your Mother. She will need lots of time to grieve for the loss of her marriage(if it comes to that) and to grieve for the loss of her trust. She will need time to face her fear of uncertainty about her future and figure things out. She will no doubt need much support during this time. Try to be strong for her. I know it will be hard but please try.
As for your Father...I will refrain from commenting at this time, but do think some of the others made some really good points and have given some good advice on the proper thing you should do.
Please remain strong and know that everything happens according to Allah's plan. Though it is not evident now the benefits that will come from this, some time in your future you will see it and your Mother will as well.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May Allah ease the pain you and your family are going through.