salam alaikum
almost all the time, i do the mistake
it is like when we are giving suggestion or solution, by nature as I talk with brothers in real, soI usually use, look bro or look brother, so when I'm here to reply i usually say this..."look brother" and most of the time I dont call with gender, try to avoid it, but at the middle of the post, i do this mess
after a lot knocking, now it has gone a bit....
my name is saifkhan, but still one sister called me "respected sister" later she said, she missread my name something safiya or something!!
JazakAllah khair
wassalam