lightofnur
Junior Member
Assalammualaikum everyone.
I'll get straight to the point and ask a couple (hopefully!) of serious questions on lowering the gaze as I believe these to be the questions that a looooot of people want to know.
1)What is the definition of "lowering the gaze"? Does it mean literally lowering our gaze, or does it mean that we must turn our eyes/head/both elsewhere when looking at the opposite gender?
2)When we talk to the opposite gender (and not cause of desires or the like, but simply cause they started the conversation first or they are asking us about something - this mostly applies to non-Muslims), how must we respond? I've seen a couple of people who actually look hurt when I turn my eyes away.
3)When we do talk in the circumstances of question 2, is it a sin to look the second time at their face and elsewhere again when speaking to them? As in, look a bit, turn our eyes, look a bit, face elsewhere, etc. (and repeatedly doing this as long as the period of conversation)? Because I read some hadith that stated a second glance is forbidden? Isn't it very difficult to completely avoid a second glance?
4)What is the definition of "gaze" in Islam? A look, a glance, a literal gaze/stare, or all?
5)Some people have said that a gaze means looking at someone with desire or lust, but others, like Islam QA for example, state ...
"So it is clear that deliberately looking at a non-mahram woman and continuing to look after a first accidental glance is haraam. It is forbidden to look at any part of her body, whether you think she is beautiful or not, whether it provokes sexual desire or not, whether it is accompanied by evil thoughts or not, and whether it leads to immoral deeds or not."
http://islamqa.com/en/ref/1774
What is the exact definition and scholarly consensus?
I'll edit and add more questions later, but for now, these are the questions that have gone unanswered. Anyone who answers, may Allah Bless you with His Love and blessings as well as forgiveness; may we all learn from this topic. Lastly, I urge that people state the facts and not their own interpretations and opinions on the matter. Jazakallah khairan
I'll get straight to the point and ask a couple (hopefully!) of serious questions on lowering the gaze as I believe these to be the questions that a looooot of people want to know.
1)What is the definition of "lowering the gaze"? Does it mean literally lowering our gaze, or does it mean that we must turn our eyes/head/both elsewhere when looking at the opposite gender?
2)When we talk to the opposite gender (and not cause of desires or the like, but simply cause they started the conversation first or they are asking us about something - this mostly applies to non-Muslims), how must we respond? I've seen a couple of people who actually look hurt when I turn my eyes away.
3)When we do talk in the circumstances of question 2, is it a sin to look the second time at their face and elsewhere again when speaking to them? As in, look a bit, turn our eyes, look a bit, face elsewhere, etc. (and repeatedly doing this as long as the period of conversation)? Because I read some hadith that stated a second glance is forbidden? Isn't it very difficult to completely avoid a second glance?
4)What is the definition of "gaze" in Islam? A look, a glance, a literal gaze/stare, or all?
5)Some people have said that a gaze means looking at someone with desire or lust, but others, like Islam QA for example, state ...
"So it is clear that deliberately looking at a non-mahram woman and continuing to look after a first accidental glance is haraam. It is forbidden to look at any part of her body, whether you think she is beautiful or not, whether it provokes sexual desire or not, whether it is accompanied by evil thoughts or not, and whether it leads to immoral deeds or not."
http://islamqa.com/en/ref/1774
What is the exact definition and scholarly consensus?
I'll edit and add more questions later, but for now, these are the questions that have gone unanswered. Anyone who answers, may Allah Bless you with His Love and blessings as well as forgiveness; may we all learn from this topic. Lastly, I urge that people state the facts and not their own interpretations and opinions on the matter. Jazakallah khairan