Noor El-Huda
Junior Member
Salam alaykum
What's a good way to encourage good behaviour, but without falling into what the prophet pbuh prophibited of praise?
"A man praised another man in front of the Prophet .The Prophet said to him, "Woe to you, you have cut off your companion's neck, you have cut off your companion's neck," repeating it several times and then added, "Whoever amongst you has to praise his brother should say, 'I think that he is so and so, and Allah knows exactly the truth, and I do not confirm anybody's good conduct before Allah, but I think him so and so,' if he really knows what he says about him."
(Sahih Bukhari vol 3 no.830)
Do you praise the behaviour but not the person?
I would appreciate some light on this matter with examples.
What's a good way to encourage good behaviour, but without falling into what the prophet pbuh prophibited of praise?
"A man praised another man in front of the Prophet .The Prophet said to him, "Woe to you, you have cut off your companion's neck, you have cut off your companion's neck," repeating it several times and then added, "Whoever amongst you has to praise his brother should say, 'I think that he is so and so, and Allah knows exactly the truth, and I do not confirm anybody's good conduct before Allah, but I think him so and so,' if he really knows what he says about him."
(Sahih Bukhari vol 3 no.830)
Do you praise the behaviour but not the person?
I would appreciate some light on this matter with examples.