thanks guys never expected sucha huge response! i do have a question kind of a personal one i guess but id be really grateful if someone could answer it. i know from my boyfriend that all muslim men are expected to shave their pubic and underarm hair, is this the same for muslim women?
thanx again everyone :tti_sister:
Hello and welcome to the website. I hope you enjoy it and please feel free to ask us aything. I searched for an answer to your question and will paste it below. This is from Islamic Q&A website,
http://www.islam-qa.com/ and another person asked a similair queation:
Question:
I am very thankful I have found this site to ask questions about Islam and know I am receiving authoritve answers! In question 2425 you quoted a passage: “Five things are part of the fitrah: circumcision, removing the pubic hair, trimming the moustache, cutting the nails, and plucking the armpit hair.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 5441) My question is : What is 'fitrah' ? I have never heard of this.
Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.
Al-Tabari (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his Tafseer: “Fitrah: the deen (way or religion) of Allaah.” Al-Tabari’s tafseer (commentary) of the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “[Iblees said] ‘…and indeed I will order them to change the nature created by Allaah.’” [al-Nisa’ 4:119]
Concerning the aayah (interpretation of the meaning), “So set your face steadily and truly to the Faith: (establish) Allaah’s handiwork according to the pattern (fitrah) on which He has made mankind: no change (let there be) in the work (wrought) by Allaah: that is the standard Religion: but most among mankind understand not.” [al-Room 30:30 – Yusuf Ali’s translation], it was reported from some of the scholars of tafseer that the phrase the pattern (fitrah) on which He has made mankind means the design of Allaah according to which He has created mankind.
This word (fitrah) was also mentioned in the hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Five things are part of the fitrah: removing the pubic hair, circumcision, trimming the moustache, plucking the armpit hairs, and trimming the nails.” (Reported by al-jamaa’ah )
What is meant by these five things being part of the fitrah is that when they are done, this is in accordance with the natural pattern on which Allaah made mankind and urged them to follow, so that they will be better and more perfect… This is the ancient sunnah (way) which was followed by all the Prophets and which was enjoined by all the laws they brought. It is a natural and innate way. (Al-Shawkaani, Nayl al-Awtaar, Baab Sunan al-Fitrah).
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Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
I hope that is helpful to you mrsmcginty. I would sincerely advise you to open your heart towards the one religion that testifies that God Almighty is the only one worth of worship and that you question our excistence and purpose of life.
If you found a watch in a desert and I told you it had ended up there as a mere chance you wouldn't believe me. Or if you saw traces of foot steps on a clear beach and I told you that it just happened by chance you would never believe me. You'd tell me that someone walked on that path. But astonishingly people cn belive that tis earth, the stars, moon, planets and everyting that is between the heavens and the earth, the creation of human, animals in this galaxy not to mention the millions of other galaxies all came together by chance and that as human beings we don't have a purpose in life. How could one believe this? And who are these people to tell us to belive this? I invite you to question your existence and to open your heart to the faith of Islam, and to realise that when you did not have life God gave you life and sustencae and provided for you from this earth and made the stars and moon of service to you and the day and night of service to you. Will you not be thankful?
I leave you with these beautiful verses of Surah (chapter) Ibrahim (abraham):
14.32 Allah is He Who has created the heavens and the earth and sends down water (rain) from the sky, and thereby brought forth fruits as provision for you; and He has made the ships to be of service to you, that they may sail through the sea by His Command; and He has made rivers (also) to be of service to you.
14.33And He has made the sun and the moon, both constantly pursuing their courses, to be of service to you; and He has made the night and the day, to be of service to you.
14.34 And He gave you of all that you asked for, and if you count the Blessings of Allah, never will you be able to count them. Verily! Man is indeed an extreme wrong-doer, - a disbeliever (an extreme ingrate, denies Allah's Blessings by disbelief, and by worshipping others besides Allah, and by disobeying Allah and His Prophet Muhammad).
Dear mrsmcginty, I would advise you to pick up the quraan and read the words of your Lord and my Lord, The Lord of mankind.
One thing I would also advise you is to ask your boyfriend to be honest with you. Is it for him as a muslim allowed to have a girlfriend? Is he being honest with you? Is he placing you in the position that you deserve as a woman and honouring you? I don't mean to be personal nor rude dearest. Make ou search for the truth based on your judgement and heart, not due to our boyfriend. I wish you all success...please do stay with us on the website.
Take care,
Sister Amirah
p.s. I'm quite close to sussex i think...not very good with geography...now where's that map on google...