I do not disrespect one of the mothers of the believers. I do not adore her. I find her actions after the demise of the prophet, swas, to be irrational.
She was instrumental in opposing the the third caliph. She was very vocal. She used her position not to bring peace. She did not listen and her mistakes cost the lives of many many Muslims. She did not honor her position as a wife of the Prophet. Does the Quran not have special restrictions on the wives of the Prophet.
She wanted her brother in law or her cousin to take the rightful place of Ali. She went to battle and while she was en route she realized she had forgotten the words of the Prophet, swas, to her. The hadith of the barking dogs.
Where is this she was his most beloved stuff come from?
She was not from the House of the Prophet i.e Ali, Fatima, and their sons. She plotted against the cousin of the Prophet, swas. She went to battle with the man the Prophet, swas, called his brother. As Moses was to Arron was Muhammed, swas, to Ali.....
Why did she not honor her husband, swas, and advocate for peace?
If we read our history we know that Ali told Uthman to change his ways or Muslims would fight until the Day of Judgement.