I'M SO LONELY

theonlystar

Junior Member
:salam2:

I WISH I GO OUT WITH MY MATES BUT THEY ARE BAD MUSLIMS BECAUSE THEY DOES NOT PRAY 5 TIMES A DAY, THEY GO TO CINEMA, BUYING MUSIC CD OR OTHER HARAM THINGS ETC.

I WANTED GO OUT BUT WHO??? I AM SO LONELY AND NEARLY CRYING AND STRESS AND DEPRESS...I HAVE READ THE QURAN AND ISLAMIC STORIES BUT ON WEEKEND IS MY CHILL OUT DAYS, I WANT TO GO OUT WITH GOOD MUSLIMS.

ANY IDEA? I WANT TO DO SOMETHING NEW...BUT HOW?

THANKS FOR READING IT.

P.S

DONT THINK I'M LUCKY.

:wasalam:
 

shaz_1999

Junior Member
Go to the Masjid and pray you can easily make friends their, these people may not be as religious as you like but at least you have something in common such as praying at the Masjid
 

IbnAlAawam

Junior Member
Salam alaykoum,

Try and join a sport club or take on a hobby.
Do not stay doing nothing, you have find an activity.
Learn Qur'an or else.

Be patient, it is not easy. Try get married as well if you can.

Salam alaykoum,
Be patient, may Allah awj give you patience.


Salama alaykoum,
 

Albint_Almuslima

Im Proud 2 B Me!
:salam2:

I want 2 start off by saying that u made a wise decision when u did not go out with ur friends, thats really tough 2 do.

If you want a place to hang out or people to hang out with i advise u and i am 100% sure that u will enjoy ur time is at the masjid. Wallah i enjoy going 2 the masjid especially when i have no where to go or nothing 2 do, and wallah i be having a blast. I meet alot of nice people there and i stay talking with them, that way we kill time by thinking of Allah and talking about Islam.
 

theonlystar

Junior Member
Go to the Masjid and pray you can easily make friends their, these people may not be as religious as you like but at least you have something in common such as praying at the Masjid

BRO, THERE IS NO YOUNG LADS IN MOSQUE.
ONLY OLD MEN THERE.
 

theonlystar

Junior Member
Salam alaykoum,

Try and join a sport club or take on a hobby.
Do not stay doing nothing, you have find an activity.
Learn Qur'an or else.

Be patient, it is not easy. Try get married as well if you can.

Salam alaykoum,
Be patient, may Allah awj give you patience.


Salama alaykoum,


I AM MARRIED, BUT SHE IS IN PAKISTAN AND SHE WILL COME TO MY COUNTRY BUT ONE YEAR LATER BECAUSE OF VISA.

JOIN A SPORT CLUB OR OTHER BUT GOOD IDEA BUT MY FRIENDS REJECT IT, I CANT GO OUT ON MY OWN, I DONT LIKE IT ON MY OWN.
 

theonlystar

Junior Member
:salam2:

I want 2 start off by saying that u made a wise decision when u did not go out with ur friends, thats really tough 2 do.

If you want a place to hang out or people to hang out with i advise u and i am 100% sure that u will enjoy ur time is at the masjid. Wallah i enjoy going 2 the masjid especially when i have no where to go or nothing 2 do, and wallah i be having a blast. I meet alot of nice people there and i stay talking with them, that way we kill time by thinking of Allah and talking about Islam.

I HAVE TO SAY, U ARE THE BEST SISTER IN TTI COS I READ ALL UR POSTS, I AM SO IMPRESSED!!! KEEP IT UP SISTA!!!

I DID GO TO THE LOCAL MOSQUE BUT NO YOUNG LADS, ONLY OLD MEN.
 

ShyHijabi

Junior Member
Salaam brother,

Are the old men approachable? I ask because they probably hold some of the best wisdom and you could learn so much from them. What about forming a circle...speak to the Imam at your mosque about posting ads for a Islamic circle on Friday evenings. We did that here on campus and now my Friday nights I can go chat with other Muslims about Fiqh and hadith. It really helps pass the time.

Wasalaam.

~Sarah
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Salaam,

Little Brother,

Boredom is the work of the devil. As the sister stated go to the masjid. Talk to the Iman and find out what you can do there. Clean the masjid. Do some paperwork, organize a pinic.
Visit the hospitals and become a volunteer. People love the company of men.
By your presence you will be performing works of charity and Allah will fill your heart with joy.
And think of the joy you will have when your wife comes to you. You will make her proud.
Finally, keep writing to us here and let us know.
 

abdellah007

Junior Member
salam


salam alaykmu brother .

Of the well-known Hadiths calling for grabbing the opportunity for investing time is the one related by Ibn-Abbas; the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said, "Grab five things before five others: your youth before your decrepitude, your health before your illness, your wealth before your poverty, your leisure before your work, and your life before your death." [al-Hakim in al-Mustadrak] This Hadith, like many others, is typically brief, yet comprehensive and loaded with meaning. It succinctly expresses in brief what specialists have presented in manuscripts. It points out the importance of time and the initiative to invest it, together with the importance of utilizing the power of the youth stage and leisure time in fruitful good work. It also warns against five obstacles that prevent proper utilization of time.

The Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam), used to call on Muslims to take the initiative to do good deeds before any obstacles arise. For instance, he said, "Lose no time to do good deeds before you are caught up by one of seven calamities awaiting you: a starvation which may impair your wisdom; a prosperity which may mislead you; an ailment which may damage your health; an old age which may harm your senses; a sudden death; the Dajjal (Antichrist); or Doomsday, which is indeed the hardest and most bitter." [at-Tirmidhi, al-Baihaqi]

The above Hadith urges Muslims to take the initiative, and not to delay good deeds; man's life is not free from impediments, such as those calamities, which can prevent him from accomplishing what could have been done earlier. Wise are those who grab available opportunities before being handicapped by obstacles.

In one Hadith, the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said, "If one becomes worried, he hurries up, and if he hurries up, he sooner reaches his destination." [at-Tirmidhi, al-Hakim]

Explaining this Hadith, Attayyibi says: "The Prophet gave this as an example to illustrate man's journey to a safe haven in the afterlife. Satan, supported by man's evil desires and wishful thinking, obstructs his way. If he is fully aware and has kept purity of intention regarding his deeds, he is safe from Satan's conniving." The example can be true in the case of the person who has set himself targets, and is worried lest he should be encountered by obstacles before reaching them. He, therefore, makes a greater effort in order to reach his targets.

The Prophet (sallallahu `alayhe wa sallam) always demanded that work should start early in the morning. On the authority of Sukhr Al-Ghamidi: "The Prophet said, 'O Allah, bless my nation's early rising.' If he dispatched an army or a division, he did that early in the morning." [Abu Dawud, Ibn Hibban] Sukhr was a merchant who used to do his business early in the morning, and he made good profit and became rich.

Aisha reported a Hadith with a similar meaning; the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said, " Rise early to earn your living and do your affairs, for it brings about blessing and success." [at-Tabarani]

Fatima, the Prophet's daughter, said that when he saw her still lying in bed one morning, he told her, "My daughter, get up and witness your Lord's bounty, and do not be among the indifferent; Allah distributes daily bread between the break of dawn and sunrise." [al-Baihaqi]
 

Aliyah206

Junior Member
SALLAM
TRUN TO ALLAH, the sunnah, the Quran..the Masjid.. Madrasahs.
after you do this i promise you: u won't have time to think/ feel depressed or loney..you'll be too busy serving ALlah and tring to become a good servant..May ALLAH guide our heart to the striaght path..
 

jabba

Salafi Dawah is the best
:salam2:

I WISH I GO OUT WITH MY MATES BUT THEY ARE BAD MUSLIMS BECAUSE THEY DOES NOT PRAY 5 TIMES A DAY, THEY GO TO CINEMA, BUYING MUSIC CD OR OTHER HARAM THINGS ETC.

I WANTED GO OUT BUT WHO??? I AM SO LONELY AND NEARLY CRYING AND STRESS AND DEPRESS...I HAVE READ THE QURAN AND ISLAMIC STORIES BUT ON WEEKEND IS MY CHILL OUT DAYS, I WANT TO GO OUT WITH GOOD MUSLIMS.

ANY IDEA? I WANT TO DO SOMETHING NEW...BUT HOW?

THANKS FOR READING IT.

P.S

DONT THINK I'M LUCKY.

:wasalam:


Salam Alaikum

Why would I think you are lucky?? anyway just be happy with what you have think about all the good things Allah (SWT) has given you. These "BAD MUSLIMS" friends of yours, well think why were they your friends in the first place? were you like them before, and changed your ways?? Instead of looking down on them this would be a good chance for dawa. Invite them to the mosque and other Islamic activities and if they don't want to go just remember "There is NO compulsion in religion"
 
Asalaamalikum,

I don't think you should call them "bad" Muslims. You should try to be a little open minded too. I use to be somewhat "bad" but alhudullillah I've changed and do my prayers. I now listen to less music and try to hang out with Muslim brothers, whereas before I use to have many kaffer friends. Those "bad" Muslims are still your brothers and sisters.

If you go to school, join your Muslim organization - a great way to network or like most suggest go to a masjid or participate in a Muslim community - play sports or other leisure activities.
 

diamond

Junior Member
be wise about who you spend your time with but remember if you put time into showing those you refuse to hang out with how good life is steering away from haraam acts, this will be a satisfaction that will make it all worthwhile...maybe use your time being open minded and at the same time strong in your belief to show those led astray the true light. maybe you are placed in the situation you are in for a reason.......hmmmmmmmmm :)
 

muslima 2

New Member
Salam Alaikom,

If you are bored try the following; recite the Quran! Or collect old clothes and get your mother , sister or someone to help you to wash, iron them and replace the zips or buttons and give them to poor people.
 

saifullah30

New Member
Have Faith

Dear Brother

Just remember the first ayat- Alhamdolillah hi rabil allamin- which means that Allah is the sub(god) of all the things in this universe, so how can any one/thing made by allah be bad, please remove this feeling from your heart. Allah loves you as well as your friends

You should meet your friends, interact more with them and slowely and patiently tell them about the virtues of believing in Allah and Islam and remember during this time Satan will always try to make you loose track hence remain steady in your belief

mark my words inshallah very soon your friends will also be practicing muslims like you, after all Allah created them also
 

Fahad_Agus

Junior Member
im a guy who fears and obeys Allah so much but i go to the cinema with my friends,play video games and hang out with them i dont see anything wrong with watching movies and doing fun things as long as its not bad to you or to others.
 

Saifu deen

Alhamdullah..
Assalam Alykom

Brother older people have lots of wisdom... read this Chinese proverb '' 10 mintues with an old wise man, is better than 10 years of reading''...

Mashalla, I totally agree with brother Saifullah.. But Satan has many tricks, his friends might have a bad influence on him Allah forbid that of course.. The comment made by brother Fahad Agus is spot on, enjoy yourself brother as long you not breaking Allah's barriers.... Baraka Allah feekom

Wassalam Alykom...
 
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