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    Question: Bereavement research

    Salam alikom, I'm doing research on "Childhood bereavement" involving parents or guardians. If you were 14-18 years old during the time you lost your parent(s)/guardian, and you are fairly comfortable talking about it, I would really appreciate it if you could answer a few questions I have about...
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    Question: Are we allowed to interpret Qur'anic verses ourselves?

    Do we have any authority to assume what a Qur'anic verse means if I want to apply my own interpretation scientifically? If the answer is no, who can I approach who will help me interpret this verse?
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    MaShaAllah! Emirati woman renovates PowerPoint

    I'm very happy to see Arabic Muslim women getting educated and making a contribution to the world. Kudos to her.
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    Thanks sis, glad you're still a regular on here! Cocaine is referenced indirectly in Islam as haram since anything that makes people intoxicated is banned anyway.. On the other hand birthday are neither referenced in a positive or a negative light. Some of my conservative muslim friends tell me...
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    Hi everybody

    the mods will never learn that this is the only reason this forum doesnt have a loyal and strong fanbase. welcome to the forum.
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    The sahaba never drove cars, owned a phone or ate pizza... Does that mean that doing these things is haram too?! We live in a different time and in a completely different culture than them, so guys, please, stop labeling everything as haram!
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    sister UmMuhammed al Mahdi, you claim you don't want to waste time on this... Does that mean that you struggle to explain the concept of a birthday celebration being bidaa? I understand, because it confuses me too. Wasalam alikom.
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    " a birth date was important in ancient times principally because a birth date was essential for the casting of a horoscope." or it could be because people wanted to keep track of their age instead... ? Haha also I think fundamentalism is a horrible word :-)
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    Why are you guys so boring!? There is nothing wrong with having a good time with your family/friends and bonding with them by making someone feel special. The whole bidaa thing never made sense to me because birthdays have nothing to do with religion, so how are you adding (or innovating)...
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    questions about crying and sujud.

    Crying during salah will get you Allah's mercy and more good deeds, so keep it up. You don't have to make wudu again if you cry because it does not nullify your prayer. There's varying opinions on whether prostrating outside of prayer is allowed. Some scholars believe it's okay because it...
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    Some Muslims consider it haram because they see it as innovation (bidaa) to the religion. On the other hand, other Muslims celebrate Prophet Muhammad's birthday every year by having a gathering that consists of supplications and singing nasheeds. You just have to come to your own conclusion by...
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    Why I left Islam

    let's hear what the man has to say... If that's okay with you? I don't see any trolling going on here. If this person is banned then we will all realise how freedom of expression on this forum is limited and biased. OP, please expand on your reason for leaving islam (that's if you're here to...
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    Muslim woman committed suicide

    If this is aimed at the girl... Could you be any more condescending?! Everyone makes mistakes, so don't be so judgemental.
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    ETIQUETTES OF FRIDAY

    bump :) assalam alikom
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    Need guidance

    Salam alikom sister, I don't think you should worry about such trivial things - I'm pretty sure you can skip those parts if you're not comfortable watching them. However as long as it's not explicit content (i.e. *!*!*!*!ographic - which isn't the case here) then why think twice about it? Just...
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    Advice needed...transgendered brother

    I think you partially answered your own questions here. In my opinion you should be honest and open towards your future wife, everyone has their own inner struggles even if it seems they are perfect from someone else's point of view. I'm not going to answer your question directly because only...
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    IT'S IN THE NATURE..SAY WHAT?!

    It's very naive to think that homosexuality does not exist. It's not a choice, some people are born that way. It's even mentioned in a hadith that near the end of times, homosexuals will increase in number. Bilala Philips needs to get with the times and help homosexual Muslims instead of...
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    God made humans perfect, so why are we changing His creation by circumcising a human?

    Jazakum Allah khairan. My question is now answered, thank you my 2 brothers. wasalam alikom
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    God made humans perfect, so why are we changing His creation by circumcising a human?

    "we have created man in the best of moulds" 95.4 It makes no sense, I know it says in the hadith that we should do it. But if we are perfect, and are created with no faults, then why are we not created circumcised already? ' I haven't been on this site in ages because I felt that I was...
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    I need help setting up a software program

    salam alikom, not sure what you mean exactly, do you want to create a forum?
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