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Asalamualikum All, I'm wondering if the moderators of this site can consolidate all the stickies into one major sticky? They're a bit... too much. :SMILY176: Also, Inshallah, by the Grace of Allah (swt) I am buying a house and will be moving in soon Inshallah. However, although it is...

JazakAllah. Yea, I actually didn't want to marry this guy. I told my father no, as we were engaged for almost a year and he never thought to meet or talk to me. So I said no, but my father had already given his word - so he asked that I listen to him for his izzat (reputation). So pretty...

Assalamualaikum, One thing I've learned in some of the trials and tribulations that have faced me is this - mental condition is everything! It has the power to make you physically sick, or put you right on top of the world. Some ways to alleviate your pain - is obviously through prayer...

JazakAllah for all your comments. I've not lost all hope, as I am going for my second degree in college in investigative journalism. However, I wish things were different. I agree with the brother who said marriages fall apart due to our own sins. However, I'm proud to say, I was...

Innah lillahi wa innalaihi rajioon. May Allah (swt) grant you brother peace and a place in Jannah Inshallah. Please be sure to be around a lot of people and feel free to release your emotions. Keeping it inside will not be good. I pray for you and your family to have strength in this...

Assalamualaikum All, I'm not sure if you all remember me. But quite a few months ago, I had posted about issues I was having with my husband. How he'd cheated on me several times - and was generally misbehaving. Well, he found someone on myspace, and we are now divorced...

Assalamualaikum Everyone, I wanted to update you all on the situation. After I started this thread - things between my husband and I really deteriorated. Basically I felt really hurt inside and didn't want to be with him - but I still went home from work everyday and cooked and cleaned -...

Hello Everyone, These two are very interesting articles. Breath of fresh air amongst all the negativity. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19879227/site/newsweek/?GT1=10150 ^ Hijab Article http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19876834/site/newsweek/?GT1=10150 ^ Islam in America Please let...

*blinks at Mirajmom's post* Err, you're right sweetheart. I blame myself just as much for everything he's doing. As far as forgiveness, I forgave him the 1st time. Then I forgave him for the two times he visited the massage parlor and cheated on me 7-8 months ago (could be a year, I don't...

Assalamu'alaikum, Abu Eesaa, I agree. I don't want to think of my husband as a Kafir. I know sometimes people get confused with the term. Regardless of that, everyone who has posted here to this post has been very supportive and kind. I have nothing but well wishes for them all. My...

Assalamu'alaikum, Sweetheart, I thought that my weight issue was THE problem for the last couple of years, however, when we got married I was quite fit and took care of my body a lot. But even then he had cheated on me. I know this isn't a tradeoff, but I am now working to make myself back...

Regardless of whether or not we lived in a certain time or not, the ultimate decision is ours. I just don't know if I have it in me to do what is right. I'm just confused of what MIGHT be right in my situation. Hopefully calling the imam will clear some stuff for me. :)

Assalamu'alaikum Brothers and Sisters, What can I say? Your posts have made me weep. I cannot tell you the strength I find in your words. Those of you who have gone through these types of situations have renewed my belief that I'm not alone, and somewhat gives me hope for the future...

Thanks to everyone for replying, and for more replies! Justone.. yes I understand. I want to know, in Islam, will I be punished for continuing to deal with this situation? Especially since there doesn't seem to be an end to it? I fear that once I have kids (of course I'm not having...

IbnalAawam.. Thanks for that. The mediation happened with his parents and my parents. The parents don't want the separation to happen (they want us to happy already and have kids - which he refuses to have with me because he says he's not happy). My husband is very Americanised (I know...

Jazakallah'Khair Darlin'. :)

And I can't access that sister's sensitive issues thread anyways. Here's the message I get: Distressed_Siste, you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons: Your user account may not have sufficient privileges to access this page. Are you...

Jazakallah'Khair sweetheart, The issue is such that it concerns my husband. I know it has some sexual references, which I apologize for but I think they're important to note. I would like it remain in a place where both brothers and sisters can post to. The only reason why I ask this is...

Thank you bro. I don't know how to use forums. So I'm confused.

I can't seem to post my reply on "General Discussions." :( I need help brother. Shall I just post the serious thread here?