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    depressed

    salam.thanku all for the lovely advice it has really helped me think things through properly.You are right yes it is defo a culture clash we are both from india but i was not brought there although i can speak urdu very well and have always spoke in urdu with kids at home they just always seem...
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    depressed

    yes last night i talked to him and he said fine if thats how you want it then i will stay away from them and not bother them at all .So now i have upset children vecause their dad is ignoring them and not talking to them at all.He has even said he will leave if i wont let him teach them...
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    depressed

    salam ,i dnt really write mush on this forum so alot of you may not really know me. i have been a little depressd for a while because of my hubby.We have lovely bright children but since about a year he has become a little different towards them,getting angry and shouting if they dnt pray on...
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    too late?

    i have a question thats been on my mind for a very long time, if a person has never prayed or wore hijab all her life intentionally.Even though knowing about the punishment just hoping to start soon but never actually starting.Suddenly realises that wat she is doing is really reallyt wrong even...
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    hijab fashion

    thanku evertbody for your rep;ies i feel a little more relaxed about colourful hijabs .its not easy to not wear them when ur frm a pakistani background where nobody wears hijab at all let alone colourfull ones .i wanted to hear from some sisters about thier first time hijabs how they started...
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    hijab fashion

    hi thanku for all the replies ,mmm bright colours seem to be the norm in the uk so they wouldnt attract attention . but then so is make up and jewellery isnt that the norm too so why would it attract attention , also by make up i mean normal light make up, its just that i see a lot of asian...
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    hijab fashion

    i just wanted some feedback on what u guys think on women who wear a full hijab but it is in bright colours and they may wear jewellery with it and some makeup. i dont mean lots of makeup but just a little bit . most ladies i know opinion would be that it is ok as long as ur covered .bright...
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    why do muslim men sit to pee

    wow sister you are fast thanks for the info i just wrote what i had heard as i said i maybe wrong but thanks for that atleast now i know and so maybe we should teach our boys to sit and pee from a young age coz thats what im going to do from now on and i can explain why to them too
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    why do muslim men sit to pee

    i have heard it is because it is an animal thing to stand and pee so humans should not do it although i may be wrong
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    help

    :yes sister i had not thought about telling my husband before but i could not take it anymore so i told him he is sooo furious about it and said he is going to talk to him about it:):)and as i said before my daughter is actually quite a pretty girl mashallh just not up to my dad s standards i...
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    help

    is that supposed to be funny sister
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    salamz

    :salam sister welcome to the site your 30 ? wow im 32:SMILY209:dnt tell any one though its kind of a secret no relly u will love this site everyone is sooo friendly
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    would you share iman to 100

    be kind to the elderly and and smile lovingly at a child
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    help

    mashallah thanku brother for ur kind words and everyone else who answered to this post i was actually at my dad s house today and as soon as we walked in he said hello little goofy one to my daughter and all the time that i was there he was talking in a really loving manner to my other children...
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    help

    thanks for all ur replies i freel much better today and glad for this place where i can talk about stuff otherwise dnt no whwre i would talk about such stuff my dad is quite a loving dad but tends to have his moments he has never talked like this about anyone before so anyway to be honest my...
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    help

    hi this is going to sound silly but i am just fuming today just been to my dads house and he just keeps saying nasty stuff to my daughter like she is not very pretty she doesnt take after you meaning me oh look at her teeth they are not straight and so on the list can go on he is a loving...
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    remember to fast monday and thursday

    just wanted to ask is this why poeple like to say a special prayer every thursday and monday ? my parents and husband never miss praying before they eat on a thursday not sure why ? they dnt fast but just say we must prey on food before eating it coz its thursday any one no y poeple do that i...
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    i killed two spiders

    What about rats and mice can u kill them if u see one in ur house i cant stand them and once found one in my kitchen and had to get hubby to set up a rat trap to kill it it was sooo gross
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    Salam, I'm from UK

    salam brother welcome here i too have deaf brother and sister so i know it can be very hard but i am sure u will find lots of help here all u need to do is ask and yes :ma:u are very lucky u can talk my deaf family members only use sign so life can be hard anyway hope u enjoy it here :blackhijab:
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    Poker

    thanku brother for your kind answer the reason i was asking is because my 10 year old son got a set of cards poker as a gift from his friend ofcourse he has no idea how to play them properly but he loves them so how do i tell him what do i do shall i throw them away pls give some advice i dont...
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