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    Smoking Cigarettes

    Thank u sister, for being blunt. Ur right that we control our own behaviour n the nicotine patch is an easy solution. I will strictly disallow my children to smoke. If there is a will, there is a way. I hate smokers yet I fall in love with him. I won't force him but I will do my best to improve...
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    Smoking Cigarettes

    Thank u sister. Is there really no way to answer his reply? I don't like how he use religion as an excuse to continue smoking. I will not give up though. I have seen smokers quit and I believe he can quit if he just realise it. I will find a way to soothe him with my words and I will pray for...
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    Smoking Cigarettes

    Assalamualaikum I have a personal question and I would like some tips from my Muslim brothers and sisters. My fiance smokes cigarettes which I had never liked, but I fell in love with him for many other reasons including his strong faith. Regarding his smoking, he has stated that he has no...
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    Thank u for your reply. I will read up more on it. Salam
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    Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?

    Assalamualaikum Is celebrating birthdays haram or encouraged?
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    Solat Istikharah

    Thank you. That website is very useful. Yes it is disallowed and we have decided to meet with our respective parents. And yes we want to stay away from syaiton and do our best to please Allah. Thanks for the reminder and thanks again for that website!
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    Solat Istikharah

    Assalamualaikum Ramadan Mubarak I would like to ask my brothers and sisters regarding solat istikharah. I never had a relationship before and now that I'm 25 I feel my time to marry is very close. I have been going out for dinners with my colleague for a month and we had admitted to each...
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    Any dua or ayahs?

    Thanks for your advice and reminder. I tend to take this quote seriously: "Trust in Allah, but tie up your camel." So i worry a lot about preparations. I'll keep your advice in mind. Thanks again :)
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    Any dua or ayahs?

    Assalamualaikum Hope everyone is well. I seldom post but I like to read the forums here. Just wanna ask my brothers n sisters if there are duas or ayahs to increase our confidence? Like before going for interviews / exams / meeting difficult clients etc. Thanks in advance :)
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    Why does evil happen?

    Thank you for all your replies. I'm really glad you understand me because my boss don't understand my feelings at all. My faith always gets weaker at these times, that's why I appreciate all your support and advice. I did tell my family and they had different opinions about it, which makes...
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    Why does evil happen?

    What I hate the most is that he is a Muslim like me and yet he does this kind of thing. @ arzafar, I would file a case in the court if I have the money to. Now I'm just hoping the police attorney would hurry up and dispose of him. @ ahmed_indian, you are probably right and I shouldn't...
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    Why does evil happen?

    I told my boss, I reported to the police. That guy is still working here, because the boss lacks manpower and tells me to forgive and forget, and for the police, whenever I call back to the police for updates, they say they are still investigating...the authorities are not doing much to help...
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    Why does evil happen?

    I was molested by my colleague who is a 40 year old Muslim who has a pregnant wife and 2 children. I'm now trying to look for a new job before quitting this one. But now I still see his face everyday and I hate his guts, with all the rushing to do his prayers and saying Alhamdulillah so loudly...
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