JazakiAllahu kheyr for your advice sister.
I would rather at least know I am doing something towards it, if you know what I mean. So that I don't leave it for a long time and my feelings get worse and worse and I start looking back and thinking "Well, what have I done to even attempt to help...
JazakAllah for your replies and helpful advice. It's comforting to know I'm not alone too.
I worry about culture being a reason for rejection. I worry that if so many people tell me I'm too young, then what is a sister's wali going to think (naturally something along those lines in a lot of...
Sorry for my last post, I was sick with a headcold and it'd evident that killed my ability to articulate my thoughts.
Alex, it's cool bro! I know you were just advising. I know everyone in this thread is offering help.
May Allah (swt) reward you all immensley. Ameen.
I know that once it's...
I'm a fulltime worker.
Who said anything about study?
I've been there and done that.
This is my personal life.
:)
I disagree. I'm a revert and it's like people are trying to repel my interest in getting married.
Obviously we have very different situations and surroundings.
I'm...
Thank you for the advice, ahkee RayRay.
But here's the thing, I'm always keeping myself busy.
I'm working, constantly doing housework, caring for my siblings.
It seems like no matter what I do, there's a longing, an emptiness. :(
Asalaamua alaykum my brothers and sisters.
First I'll set the scene for you. I'm a 20 year old convert, living in an area with like...NO muslims. Alhamdoulileh! It's proving a struggle, but I'm hoping I can maintain patience and just keep checking myself insha'Allah.
Lately I've been finding...