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I'm getting conflicting opinions. One side says I shouldn't get married because I'm too young, not financially stable to support a spouse and don't have the emotional ability to handle marriage. The other side says I should get married because deen is more important over being financially stable...

Yes Allah has given us free will but He alone still controls everything that occurs. Eg: You work very hard to get a new job. Though your hard work got you the job, Allah gave you the ability to work hard and therefore ordained that out of your hard work you get the job. Similarly with zina...

Brother I do have a job but it's just a casual one and definitely not enough to support a spouse.

Thanks sister for your response, you've given a heap of good info that I'll definitely take note of.

Thanks sister for your response, I agree that marriage isn't only about being financially stable but emotionally capable of supporting a spouse as well.

Thanks sister for your response, yes I'm definitely sure I'm in love with her. I agree that it's better I tell her directly to prevent involving someone else unnecessarily. Yes I'll try not to think about her too much haha.

Thanks brother for your response, you've given a good point in regards to the financial responsibility of marriage, I'll definitely take note of it.

Thanks for your reply brother, it feels great to be praying five times a day. I agree that it is definitely a clue or sign of some sort Allah has left me. Either way Allah knows what is best for both of us and His plan is always the best.

Thanks for your response sister, I couldn't agree with you more. That's right Muslims who delay getting married because they're not financially able to support a spouse end up dramatically increasing the risk of falling into committing zina which unfortunately often happens. Deen is always more...

Thanks for your reply brother, I can understand where you're coming from. Marriage is indeed a big commitment and responsibility to undertake. I've read that Hadith numerous times before as well. Thanks again for your reply, I appreciate it.

Thanks for your reply sister, I'll take note of your advice, I appreciate your response.

Thanks for your response sister, much appreciated. :) How am I meant to get into contact with her wali?

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters, I hope you're all in good health and are going well. I haven't visited TTI for a while and want to first give a quick update... Since late October last year I've been praying five times a day and it's been a massive achievement! It feels good to be...

Thanks for all of the valuable info everyone. I'll definitely be implementing it Insha'Allah. :)

Thanks for your replies. I know that fasting is a great solution but it's not a complete solution. Because I can't fast everyday until I get married. Also at the times when I break my fast or am not fasting that's when the pressure is on and it's almost impossible to deal with.

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters. I hope you are all having a wonderful Ramadan for 2012. In my journey of propelling myself further into Islam and building stronger Imaan I've come across a road block that's really been affecting me for a long time. It's marriage. I've been looking into...

Thanks brother for your comment. My Imaan is growing ever strong now Masha'Allah. Insha'Allah it will soon be so strong I won't even be thinking about fornication like you said. I have complete trust in Allah (SWT) and will keep making dua.

Yes I need to keep thinking positive. Insha'Allah Allah (SWT) makes it easy for you as well.

Thanks for your comments brother. No doubt pure matrimony sounds good but it's quite expensive. The best site I've come across is halfourdeen as it is amazingly cheap, reliable and got all the features I need. Anyway I'll see how I go with that. I'll definitely be making more dua Insha'Allah. I...

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters. Insha'Allah you are all going well and have strong Imaan. I've come a long way since last year when I said my Shahada, Alhamdulillah. I've given up many things for the sake of pleasing Allah (SWT). It's been unexplainably tough and still is today. Through...