akkhanam_05
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BismillaahirRahmaanirRaheem
3salam3lakum & Ramadan Mubarak!
I reverted in March 2006 (Alhumdullilah) and still am having trouble with my children. See, they live with their father, and he speaks to them very negatively about Islam. I have spoke to them about Islam but they will only hear so much. I don't want to pressure them, but their father encourages them and lets them think it is ok to make fun of me (mainly the way I dress compared to the way I used too). I thought that after seeing the change in me and my life that it wouldn't matter. They just want the fun mom back. I let them know I was wrong and blind to the truth, but now this is who I am and who Allah(SWT) wants me to be. Now, SubhanAllah, none of them believe in the trinity anymore and 2 of my daughters have even went to the mosque w/ me. 2 have went as far as praying with me (MashaAllah). I have 3 girls and 2 boys. Ages: 16g, 14g,
13b, 11g, 9b. My boys seem to give me the biggest problem. I guess what I am asking is if anyone has any suggestions. I just pray Allah(SWT) be with me and guide me in my words. It is just hard when their father doesn't let me spend that much time with them. I am working on, InshaAllah, saving some money to fight the visitation rights. Please make Duah for me.:tti_sister:
Allah Hudafiz!
Khadijah
Standing strong and devoted
I know, although I don't know where, the Quran say that your children won't get you into Paradise and even about how Ibriham had to deny his own father even though he loved him so. ( I hope I have that right. Istirfirlah, if I don't.) But..... it doesn't make it hurt any less. I totally feel that last part(about Ibriham).
3salam3lakum & Ramadan Mubarak!
I reverted in March 2006 (Alhumdullilah) and still am having trouble with my children. See, they live with their father, and he speaks to them very negatively about Islam. I have spoke to them about Islam but they will only hear so much. I don't want to pressure them, but their father encourages them and lets them think it is ok to make fun of me (mainly the way I dress compared to the way I used too). I thought that after seeing the change in me and my life that it wouldn't matter. They just want the fun mom back. I let them know I was wrong and blind to the truth, but now this is who I am and who Allah(SWT) wants me to be. Now, SubhanAllah, none of them believe in the trinity anymore and 2 of my daughters have even went to the mosque w/ me. 2 have went as far as praying with me (MashaAllah). I have 3 girls and 2 boys. Ages: 16g, 14g,
13b, 11g, 9b. My boys seem to give me the biggest problem. I guess what I am asking is if anyone has any suggestions. I just pray Allah(SWT) be with me and guide me in my words. It is just hard when their father doesn't let me spend that much time with them. I am working on, InshaAllah, saving some money to fight the visitation rights. Please make Duah for me.:tti_sister:
Allah Hudafiz!
Khadijah
Standing strong and devoted
I know, although I don't know where, the Quran say that your children won't get you into Paradise and even about how Ibriham had to deny his own father even though he loved him so. ( I hope I have that right. Istirfirlah, if I don't.) But..... it doesn't make it hurt any less. I totally feel that last part(about Ibriham).