Assalam Alaikum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh! Before I start, I want y'all to let me know if you don't like what I say or ask. You have EVERY right to criticize me or delete my post if you think it's inappropriate, and I would totally understand it! I'm a hijabi. I wear really long and lose clothes and no makeup, I don't talk to men and I make sure I get the 'DON'T EVER TALK TO ME OR INTERACT WITH ME' message across and somehow I still end up getting the wrong kind of attraction. I remember this one time when I would get calls from 18 unknown numbers, apparently my contact number got leaked and the brothers in the institute kept passing it on to one another. It got impossible for me to eat or sleep or study because of the calls and messages I kept receiving 24/7. I changed my contact number and luckily I've only received one text from an unknown number so far! I'm sure every girl has been through it but it gets me really worried at this point because I'll be joining a Med. College soon and while I was going through the college's fb page I came across some really inappropriate posts. Anyway, my question to you brothers is, do you stare at sisters around? If you do, do you realize what a sin you're commiting? Do you realize what the girl goes through when you X-Ray scan her or pass comments over her? I don't know if this really even is a question but I'm kind of worried sick so thought I'd pour over my concern here since it's pretty much impossible I'd meet anyone of you IRL so..