MuslimKnight
New Member
Assalam 'alaikum,
What to do when you're looking for a wife and you feel attracted to a girl who has good morals (hayaa, respect, ...) but not really practicing the Islamic teachings : she doesn't wear hijaab, listens to music, ...
As I'm looking for a pious wife, I have then two choices : talk to her first about the importance of practicing her deen so to test her motivation OR go directly to her father and ask him his daughter for marriage (I'll present my conditions about commitment to deen).
somewhat confused, what's the best way ?
What to do when you're looking for a wife and you feel attracted to a girl who has good morals (hayaa, respect, ...) but not really practicing the Islamic teachings : she doesn't wear hijaab, listens to music, ...
As I'm looking for a pious wife, I have then two choices : talk to her first about the importance of practicing her deen so to test her motivation OR go directly to her father and ask him his daughter for marriage (I'll present my conditions about commitment to deen).
somewhat confused, what's the best way ?