yasmingsalaf
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salamalaikum brothers and sister,
my friend (i call him "A" here) is asking my advice regarding his family problem, but i really don't know what kind of advice should i give to him, so i am post it here to ask your help with you guys’ knowledge and wisdom.(inshaAllah we can help him)
here is the whole situation (sorry it may very long....)
"A"'s father has two houses, when "A"'s brother get married, due to this new couple's request "A"'s father agree to let them to stay in another house. "A" and his parents stay in one house, "A"'s brother and his wife stay in another house, since this couple stay separately, they didn't take care much "A''s parent, and the relationship between them was not good. “A’s brother and sister-in-law opened a small shop, and with Allah’s blessing they got quite good income, even the brother planed to buy a new house for his own family (brother, wife and two daughters), he wants to return back the house to the father since father got no job and no any income.
Recently "A"'s brother was passed away with left two daughters (18 and 8 years old), after his death, the wife took all his saving money and didn't give anything to "A"'s father. This made father very angry. Now the father caste out "A's sisier-in-law, two kinds and took back the house (through some legal procedures, because the house still under his name).
The above is the whole situation, my friend "A" doesn’t know which side he should stand with? One side is his father, another side is two niphews. He doesn’t want to see the breaking of relationship happened between his father and his niphews.
so my dear brothers and sister, in this situation, what should i do so that i can confirm his and help him? please give me some good ideals.
May Allah bless all those who helped me in this situation.
and Waasalamalaikum to all my brothers and sisters.
my friend (i call him "A" here) is asking my advice regarding his family problem, but i really don't know what kind of advice should i give to him, so i am post it here to ask your help with you guys’ knowledge and wisdom.(inshaAllah we can help him)
here is the whole situation (sorry it may very long....)
"A"'s father has two houses, when "A"'s brother get married, due to this new couple's request "A"'s father agree to let them to stay in another house. "A" and his parents stay in one house, "A"'s brother and his wife stay in another house, since this couple stay separately, they didn't take care much "A''s parent, and the relationship between them was not good. “A’s brother and sister-in-law opened a small shop, and with Allah’s blessing they got quite good income, even the brother planed to buy a new house for his own family (brother, wife and two daughters), he wants to return back the house to the father since father got no job and no any income.
Recently "A"'s brother was passed away with left two daughters (18 and 8 years old), after his death, the wife took all his saving money and didn't give anything to "A"'s father. This made father very angry. Now the father caste out "A's sisier-in-law, two kinds and took back the house (through some legal procedures, because the house still under his name).
The above is the whole situation, my friend "A" doesn’t know which side he should stand with? One side is his father, another side is two niphews. He doesn’t want to see the breaking of relationship happened between his father and his niphews.
so my dear brothers and sister, in this situation, what should i do so that i can confirm his and help him? please give me some good ideals.
May Allah bless all those who helped me in this situation.
and Waasalamalaikum to all my brothers and sisters.