ATTENDING A MARRIGE

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    FIRST OF ALL I NEED DUAA FROM ALL MY BROTHRES AND SISTERS AND MAY ALLAH KEEP ALL OF YOU HAPPY HEALTHY AND FLORISHING.

    MY NIECE 26 IS GETTING MARRIAGE, SHE WANTS MY DAUGHTER WHO IS 16 TO MUST COME FOR THIS MARRIAGE THEY ARE IN US I LIVE IN CANADA, BEFORE COMING TO US THEY WERE IN ENGLAND.

    PROBLEM I AM FACING IS THAT THEY ARE NON PRACTICING MUSLIM AND MARRIAGE IS A OPEN PARTY EVENT TYPE. MY NIECE IS MARRYING A RECENTLY CONVERTED MUSLIM FROM ITALIAN BACKGROUND BASICLY IT IS A LOVE MARRIAGE IF HE WAS NOT MUSLIM SHE WOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO MARRY THE MAN.
    ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST I CAN BE WRONG 100% I DO NOT KNOW VERY MUCH ABOUT THE PERSON.

    I AM GIVING MY BROTHER AND FAMILY DAAWA FOR PRACTICING ISLAM FOR SOME TIME BUT WE ONLY MEET WHEN THERE IS A FAMILY WEDDING OR DEATH.

    I NEED ADVICE HOW TO HANDLE THIS SITUATION, AND IF I TAKE MY DAUGHTER SHE MIGHT BE THE ONLY PERSON IN HIJAB SHE WILL FACE OTHER OF MY NIECE'S FRIENDS AND COUSINS WHO WOULD BE IN A DIFFERENT ATTIRE. WE ARE TWO BROTHERS I GAVE ONE DAUGHTER AND THREE SONS AND HE HAS ONE DAUGHTER AND ONE SON, MY NIECE HAS DONE HER LAW EXAMS RECENTLY.

    JAZAK ALLAH IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR TIME AND YOUR ADVICES
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    Brother, i could be wrong, Allah (swt) knows best the situation, but i am from Canada as well, and lived in the US too, and knowing the the groom is from the background you describe, you have to realize the type of people there.
    The fitnah involved is really big, even if they are muslims, the marriages these days have just become a place for fitnah and desires and shaitaan enjoying over the acts of people, i speak from a Pakistani background, but the wedding these days don't have alot of islamic behaviour.

    and Allah (swt) knows best
    but you would be exposing your daughter to alot of fitnah, and 2ndly would make her really uncomfortable to be in a situation like that.

    :wasalam:
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    I think you should save your daughter from this wedding since in this age 16 she might be affected for the whole of her life. Visit them after the wedding is finished ......and try your best to be kind with them . May Allah guide all muslems.
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    Unless that you and your family are very strong , and can go and give dawa and make a change for better........Allahu aalam.

    But be careful girls at 16 can be changed easily .
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    essallamou allaikoum douaa pour votre probleme in chaa ellah vous guide envers le bon chemin .

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