Hadith Be the Wiser Person

afrarzk

احبك ىارب
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “O Muslims! Sit with your elders, question the scholars, and meet wise people.” [Tibrani, Mishkat]

In other words, one should benefit from knowledge at every opportunity. Elders have life experience from which one may benefit. We should sit with them to benefit from their experiences and also to provide them with company. Scholars have religious knowledge from which one may learn. Asking questions is a way in which we can learn from them.

Besides elders and scholars, Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) advised us to keep the company of the wise. The wise are those whose destination is Paradise. Whoever ends up in the Fire will consider himself/herself to be the most stupid of people. They may have been Nobel laureates in the world but when they get to their final destination they will realize how they had wasted their brains and will say: “Had we but listened or used (any of) our intelligence, we should not (now) be among the Companions of the Blazing Fire!” [Quran 67:10]

The scholars and the wise are those who have the awareness, love and fear of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala). Imam Malik once referred to someone as a scholar. When it was said that he is not a particularly learned person, Imam Malik replied, “He has the fear of Allah, which is the fruit of knowledge.”

How should we recognize these wise people whose destination is Jannah?

Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) says that the wise are:
1) Those who forbid others from doing wrong: “Why were there not, among the generations before you, persons possessed of balanced good sense, prohibiting (men) from mischief in the earth.” [Quran 11:116]
2) Those who practice what they preach: “Do you enjoin righteousness upon mankind while you yourselves forget (to practise it)? And you are readers of the Scripture! Have you then no sense?” [Quran 2:44]
3) Those who give every preference to the life of the Hereafter and spend their life working for it: “Naught is the life of the world save a pastime and a sport. Better far is the abode of the Hereafter for those who keep their duty (to Allah). Have you then no sense? [Quran 6:32]
4) Those who believe in the message brought by Muhammad (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam): “The likeness of those who disbelieve (in relation to the messenger) is as the likeness of one who calls to that which hears nothing except a shout and cry. Deaf, dumb, blind, therefore they have no sense.” [Quran 2:171]

Although everybody has something to teach and something to learn, the harm of the foolish, ignorant or frivolous person is more than their good. Time is a precious commodity that should not be wasted in useless chatter. For a capitalist, time is money. For a Muslim, time is much more precious than that. It is our Jannah or Jahannum. Our never ending life depends on how we use it.

A wise person is one who learns from his experiences, while the wiser person is one who learns from the experiences of others. This hadith is telling us to be the wiser person and learn from the experiences of our elders, the scholars who fear Allah and the wise.
 

Janaan

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Wa`alaikum salaam warahmatullaahi wabarakaatuh, sister!

Jazaakillaahu khayran for sharing this!

Such a lovely advice! May Allaah `azza wa jall make us amongst those who are able to implement the teaching of Mustafaa :saw: in our everyday lives.
 

afrarzk

احبك ىارب
Assalam alaikum wa rahmathullah

Ameen! jazakum Allah khairan

and Ameen to your duaa sis janaan

May Allah make us all amongst the people of Jannah....Ameen ya rabb
 

hayat84

I'm not what you believe
that is a good reminder,,but let me ask,how many of you have time a space to talk to someone wiser?maybe you live in "wonderland",because where I live,there is no wiser person to talk with.I 'd like to change town,because here there is no social life:oops:
 

afrarzk

احبك ىارب
that is a good reminder,,but let me ask,how many of you have time a space to talk to someone wiser?maybe you live in "wonderland",because where I live,there is no wiser person to talk with.I 'd like to change town,because here there is no social life:oops:

Assalam alaikum wa rahmathullah

Since you inquired lemme tell you ukhti, We do find time to talk with the wiser people and that really boosts up our imaan Alhamdulilah!!

Hmm Insha Allah!

May Allah make everything easy for you,sister. Ameen
 

Khalidbinwaleed

Junior Member
that is a good reminder,,but let me ask,how many of you have time a space to talk to someone wiser?maybe you live in "wonderland",because where I live,there is no wiser person to talk with.I 'd like to change town,because here there is no social life:oops:
Sister, a nice advice from your brother, Never underestimate anyone.... watch this and you'll understand Insha Allah :)
 

Aisya al-Humaira

الحمدلله على كل حال
I do believe we can learn from everyone, even from a 5 years old kid. Don't they say that the innocent and pure hearts of the children view things at face value, see things how they really is? Its a matter whether we want to extract the wisdom from the situation and accept it or simply ignore it because of the person 'preaching'.

I must say that I do learn a lot from people's live and experiences. For the bad experiences I learnt from others, I feel sorry for them especially if its a circumstance hard to change.

Sometimes a few lines of words is enough to wake us up, just that we need to re-read it again and again to really grasp a full understanding of the wisdom.

Sorry for being in the philosophical mode lol.
 
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