Can I ask allah to make me abit more sociable

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    See im not really one of those people who has that much friends...
    I do have some friends but maybe not for long.....i dont talk much and i know not talking much can be good but im too quite .....I want allah to give me the ability to be abit more scoiable with other people and to be sociable you need to be able to talk and Im barely able to make any good conversation

    so can i ask allah for that?
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    :mashallah: my dear bro u make me laugh fr the good way coz I would love to be more quiet than I'm. Of course u can ask allah anything u want as long as its not haraam. I think u were born being a quiet and its good thing being queit why do u want to change its yr unique way. Try to start small talk with people and topic that can be interesting to talk, and insha allah that will make u open up more insha allaah.

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    i know how u feel

    U will change inshallah
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    Thats my problem i cant find any interesting topic to talk about ....and i dont like to be so quite ...this quiteness is weakening the bonds with my friends and i dont have any close friends
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    dear bro dont worry to much u will find yr way. u can talk abt the things u like and also what abt things that u have in common with yr freinds like sports, some thing was the news, schools, career. trust me u will open up as u grow up coz I was very quiet when I was very young and now I'm not talkative but not as quiet as i like to be. Im sure u have so much interesting topic that u can talk abt , see this thread was one of them so ask questions and some thing will come up to talk abt insha allaah.

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    yes can but i will be better that you say that"dear god!if this thing is good for me than except it for me"
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    well as all actions are rewarded according to intentions, ask allah make me more sociable that i can be more confident when i give da'wat. do it with that intention and allah will sort it out as all qualities are in allahs khazanah!!!
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    I'm quiet with my friends and I speak a little when the sujet not interessing me but when it's my prefer sujet I talk more ....it's good to be quiet don't be sad I have many freind as you and me and we don't care about it ,we walk with any word ...... seek for your sujet prefere and you will see the deffenrece .... and I think you have to show the debate as Ahmed deedat because it get more interessing the speech in your heart ..... :)
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    :salam2: i know you want advice but i've got one thing to say........these people you're asking advice for ARE your friends. and u said you have nothing interesting to talk about how about discussing Islam(trust me, it's fun), also you can talk about the thing they are talking about at the moment. I'll give you some ideas of what to talk about, here it goes. maybe not your type of things but try them and see.
    1.What you would do to help the world (ask them first though)

    2.The goals that can be achieved by many(such as making da'wah)
    3. Da'wah
    4.telling stories about islamic history(Rasulullah s.a.w, and his companions)

    Brother quietness brings about wisdom. so you just gotta find something you love. anything that interests, especially being a muslim there must be something you really love.
    I hope that i was of help to you, if i wasn't i'm sorry. and yes you can ask Allah for anything as long as it isn't something forbidden ex. (wishing to die):hijabi:
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    But palestine im trying to be a bit more sociable i dont want to be tooo quite just quite but not tooo quite
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    and sometimes i get very depressed when i dont have anyone to talk to...or hang out with
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    salam

    Feel free to pm me and we can discuss islam and stuff :)

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