sulaiman786
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Aslaam Alaikum
This is a very sensitive issue for me as im sure it is for many parents who are going through this but i would love to get opinions from you pious people mashallah
Why do women use children as a weapon against the fathers after a break up?
Or father's using the children against the mothers in some cases? (although ive never come acoss one tbh)
Yes i am one of the unfortunate fathers who last saw my son over 2 years ago. I was in a relationship with my ex which ill describe as hell, she accused me of x,y and z and chucked the kitchen sink at me too and at times she would threaten to overdose herself. I knew i would be without my son if i left her so i had to make the choice of being with her for the sake of my son or just do 1, i stayed for a while and tryed and tryed to make it work but it was getting worse so i broke it off with her and thats it, i knew i lost my boy. I fighted in courts and got supervised access but then she wouldnt let me take him out unsupervised for day outings and because my son was seeing me in a little tiny room, he would get hot and bothered and cry and this dragged, i took the decision to break contact with my boy because my solicitor said i would have no hope. My boy is 3 now.
Why do women lie and use and abuse the law in this country (ENGLAND UK) to keep the children away from the fathers (or mothers in a man's case)?
Do women not fear that they will return to Allah swt court?
I d love to hear things on this subject and maybe share with peple what theyre experiences are and get advise from you pious people mashalah.
I want to whole heartedly appologise if i cause any upset to anyone by bringing a memory from the past. please sincerely forgive me.
Masalaam
This is a very sensitive issue for me as im sure it is for many parents who are going through this but i would love to get opinions from you pious people mashallah
Why do women use children as a weapon against the fathers after a break up?
Or father's using the children against the mothers in some cases? (although ive never come acoss one tbh)
Yes i am one of the unfortunate fathers who last saw my son over 2 years ago. I was in a relationship with my ex which ill describe as hell, she accused me of x,y and z and chucked the kitchen sink at me too and at times she would threaten to overdose herself. I knew i would be without my son if i left her so i had to make the choice of being with her for the sake of my son or just do 1, i stayed for a while and tryed and tryed to make it work but it was getting worse so i broke it off with her and thats it, i knew i lost my boy. I fighted in courts and got supervised access but then she wouldnt let me take him out unsupervised for day outings and because my son was seeing me in a little tiny room, he would get hot and bothered and cry and this dragged, i took the decision to break contact with my boy because my solicitor said i would have no hope. My boy is 3 now.
Why do women lie and use and abuse the law in this country (ENGLAND UK) to keep the children away from the fathers (or mothers in a man's case)?
Do women not fear that they will return to Allah swt court?
I d love to hear things on this subject and maybe share with peple what theyre experiences are and get advise from you pious people mashalah.
I want to whole heartedly appologise if i cause any upset to anyone by bringing a memory from the past. please sincerely forgive me.
Masalaam