Do Not Marry 7 Types of Women

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    1. Al-Annaanah:
    The woman who whines, moans and complains and ‘ties a band around her head’ all the time (i.e. complains of a headache or some illness but in reality she is not sick, rather she is faking).

    2. Al-Mannaanah:
    The woman who bestows favours, gifts, etc. upon her husband then (at that time or the future) says; “I did such and such for you or on your behalf or because of you.

    3. Al-Hannaanah:
    The women who yearns or craves for her former husband or children of the former husband.

    4. Kay’atul-Qafaa:
    The women who has a brand mark on the nape of her neck (i.e. has a bad reputation or doubts about her).

    5. Al-Haddaaqah:
    The women who cast her eyes at things (i.e. always looking at something to purchase, then desires it and requires her husband to buy it (No Matter What).

    6. Al-Barraaqah:
    The women who spends much of her day enhancing her face and beautifying it to such an extent that it will seem like it was manufactured.

    7. Al-Shaddaaqah:
    The woman who talks excessively.
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    assalamualiakum

    Be careful the ummah of muhammed!!!
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    Jazak Allahu Khairan, ukhti. If you can please also post types of men that muslimahs should not marry. That will also be beneficial.
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    The source please....
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    you dont need a source for this AHMED it is more like watch out there is no hadith nor ayah for it it is just something that is more a naseeha or advice call it what ever you want it akhi Fi Amanillah
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    I think I met every single one of those women in my old life. I even dated a few back then. Fortunately (I suppose), none of those relationships ever worked out.
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    Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullah wa baarakatuhu

    Jazzak Allah khair dear sister for sharing with us, but I think there should be made the same advices for us sisters InshAllah. :hijabi:

    :wasalam:
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    :salam2:

    Yeah, I'm interested to see what type of man I am...
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    Bismillah what did you just say ?? just a guy
    that you meet every single of those women in your old life ???
    i mean all 7 of them ?? sorry i am not use to hear someone saying i meet all of them ones it is new for me

    i think it goes both way if you finde all 7 on women then they find 7 more about you i am just sayin
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    Well, in my previous life (before Islam), I met at least one example of all 7 types of women listed. They're fairly common in Western society.
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    awww ok ,,, i am sorry 2 hear that
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    Not your fault. Don't worry about it. There's a reason why things didn't work out for me back then. I haven't figured out what it is yet, but Allah knows, and one day He will reveal it to me...

    I still want to know what kind of guy I am. :SMILY335:
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    Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullah wa baarakatuhu

    Dear brother every good Muslim and Servant of Allah is also good persone MashAllah.:hijabi:

    May Allah make our ahlaq always beautiful and make our behaviour example for others so that Allah be pleased with us. Ameen ya Rabby

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    Assalamu alaikum,

    may Allah ta'ala protect us from EVER becoming such women.

    Jazaka'Allah khair for sharing ukhti,
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    I'm not a perfect woman,but I'm not in that list.
    Barak Allahu fiki sister,for the reminder.if only women respected their husbands,maybe the Hell didn't exist:lol:
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    Bro I did too (meet them, that is) It seems like most American women are this way.
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    :salam2:

    Yes, this is a big problem in American society. Too many women are vain, shallow, and materialistic.

    The same can be said of the men too. I am not completely blameless in that. I too have had my moments.

    There are many reasons why I prefer Muslim sisters now over Western women.
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    i am shy to write about the brother s

    i wrote about the women since i am one of them

    brother s dont think for one minut that there is no list just so you know there is
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    ukhti, never shy from the truth....if you know it will help someone. I think it will help US sisters as much as it would help them. I am just saying, but know that I respect your decision and if I have said anything wrong, please forgive me.
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    yeah i know laa yastahi minal haq we should never be shy of the haq

    but ukhtii this is the shynes where you cant put thing s into words if you know what i mean ,,,

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