what am i suppose to do if i can't talk to the girls? or any other men can't talk to the sisters? what if they are not married?
i think its rather wrong that men can't talk to the muslim sisters but people can talk to a non-muslim.
i keep getting the impression that if i saw someone in the street who is muslim and i was walking down in the other direction and i looked at you and smiled and said "hi" or something and i didnt know much about islam and you didnt talk to me, i would think " oh she is being anti social " or " she is probably in a bad mood and not having a good day ", or if i just wanted to socialise and get to know people which i love doing.
in a country like England thats the impression you would be giving me. im not saying it to be horrible, you are always welcome to chat to me online or offline
as someone have said,islam do not fully forbidden talking to opposite gender.if you or the girl is with the mahram or there is a third human being between the two of you,then it is fine.i guess you need to read on the topic how to approach a sister for marriage.an unmarried will get bother with this matter for the sake of marriage.there are some threads on it and please read.
if all men and women can't talk,then how come all the solehah and soleh men got married?there are correct channels you must follow.
i know it is too soon and too new for you and we are not asking you to follow all the islamic rules all of a sudden.
first of all think about saying the shahadah and that is what matters the most.the other things we can discuss later on the thread if you do have any further questions.May Allah guide you to the right path and keep syaitan away from you.ameen