FEELING EMOTIONAL

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  1. saima abdullah
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    saima abdullah my life iz 4 Allah

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    When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done - and i am not able to accept it - i become angry.

    When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done -
    and i am able to accept it - i remain tolerant.
    When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i am not able to produce - and I m not able to accept it - I become jealous.
    When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i am not able to produce - and i am able to accept it - i get inspired.

    When i am encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which i am not sure how i am going to handle - and i am not able to accept it - it causes fear in me.
    When i am encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which i am not sure how i am going to handle - and i am able to accept it - i feel adventurous about it.

    When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i am not able to accept it - it develops hatred in me.
    When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i am able to accept it - it helps me forgive them.

    When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i am not able to accept it - i say i am missing you.
    When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i am able to accept it - i say i am thinkin of you.

    Thus, Emotional Equation becomes:
    Something + acceptance = positive emotion
    Something + non-acceptance = negative emotion

    So, it is not something or someone who is making me feel positive or negative, but it s my acceptance or non-acceptance of something or someone, which impacts things.

    CHOICE IS YOURS!!
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    marshallah

    :jumpclap:Marshallah! That's brilliant! It's all about having a POSITIVE attitude :) hard to maintain it though sometimes isn't it...may Allah help us and purify our thinking.
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    You have the feelings of a person who generally has the least amount of control on her life. You're dependent on others in most situations regarding your life.
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    yeah.. for every matter, there is a positive side and a negative one. sometimes we think soo much about the negative side that we end up seeing no positivity in the matter.

    jazaki ALLAH khair...
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    salam wa rahmato lah wa barakatoh

    Easy is to forgive others
    Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

    Easy to dream every night
    Difficult is to fight for a deam

    Easy is to show vectory
    Difficult is to assume defeat with degnity

    Easy is to admire a full moon
    Difficult is to see other side

    Easy is to stumble with a stone
    Difficult is to get up

    Easy is to promise some thing to some one
    Difficult is to fulfull it that promise

    Easy is to say we love
    Difficult is to show it every day

    Easy is to enjoy life every day
    Difficult is to give it real value

    Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
    Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

    Easy is to talk without thinking
    Difficult is to refrain the tongue

    Easy is to hurt so who loves us
    Difficult is to heal the wound

    Easy is to criticise others
    Difficult is to improve ourselves

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