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I understand, it is probably the same feeling that I felt when my near ones literally force me to shave or trim my beard. Probably its worse, as a girl is more pressurized. But by no means should a muslim and a muslimah shake from the straight path. No matter what. Even if the world turns upside down. InshAllah, if something has to be cut first my head and the rest later. If something has to be removed stand your ground, it is better that the head goes off before the hijab does.