Ghareebah
Bint Abdulkadir
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this has been bugging me for a long time...and i was wondering if any one has any advice they can give me?.
i have a freind who mashallah is a wonderful person inside and out, however i am quite worried about her these days..this friend mashallah just a year ago decided to wear a more fuller covering (abaya) and hijab...she used to wear just her hijab and trousers before. however she recently decided to go back to wearing her trousers, which i find quite heart breaking..because i heard the angels curse the women who wears the trousers because it resembles the clothing of a man...also i feel she is going through things...which i havent actually talked to her about because i feel she is not ready to be open about it. i just want to know how can i advice her islamicly? because i know on the day of judgement i would be blamed if i didnt advice her. its just i dont know how to adress the issue...if i say anything i dont want her to think i am judging her or attacking her...how can i break it to her in a gentle and kind manner...she trusts me fully..and also my other friend adviced me not to say anything right now..but i feel if i dont adress it now? when..and how do i know if either of us will be living tomorrow??? is it better to make dua for her and the adress her or the other way round?????:shymuslima1:
please let me know your comments
this has been bugging me for a long time...and i was wondering if any one has any advice they can give me?.
i have a freind who mashallah is a wonderful person inside and out, however i am quite worried about her these days..this friend mashallah just a year ago decided to wear a more fuller covering (abaya) and hijab...she used to wear just her hijab and trousers before. however she recently decided to go back to wearing her trousers, which i find quite heart breaking..because i heard the angels curse the women who wears the trousers because it resembles the clothing of a man...also i feel she is going through things...which i havent actually talked to her about because i feel she is not ready to be open about it. i just want to know how can i advice her islamicly? because i know on the day of judgement i would be blamed if i didnt advice her. its just i dont know how to adress the issue...if i say anything i dont want her to think i am judging her or attacking her...how can i break it to her in a gentle and kind manner...she trusts me fully..and also my other friend adviced me not to say anything right now..but i feel if i dont adress it now? when..and how do i know if either of us will be living tomorrow??? is it better to make dua for her and the adress her or the other way round?????:shymuslima1:
please let me know your comments