I want to be a good wife.

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    Hi.
    My name is Zahra and I am new converted in to Islam.
    I have some difficulties with my husband despite I love you so much and repect to him tottaly.
    I thing cause I am other culture I do not know the things las he likes...
    if u have some words for me pls help me.

    :hijabi:
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    aslam o aliakum sis :)
    welcome to Islam 1st of all :) Mashallah May ALlah (swt) keep u and ur husband always happy - ameen

    Well :) since im not sure wat culture he belongs too :) i think its always kool to just ask him :) wat he likes, and how can u both adjust so that both the cultural values are not lost
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    KIDS

    Take babies as soon as possible. Children is a good source of happiness especially for the mother in their distress. This would certainly solve some your problems. Children also brings closed the husband and wife.
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    sister.. your are indeed a good wife alhamdulillah!...
    sis ..keep him happy.
    inshallah! he will then keep you happy
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    well sis am a revert too and married to a different culture man...perhaps we can talk on pm.why dont u pm me.insyaAllah we will discuss things out.being a revert is not an easy job.u must learn about islam and at the same time take care of ur house cores.insyaAllah u can do it as how many other revert wives do.just pm me. yes have baby as soon as possible. :)
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    Asalam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakhatu

    I think communication is very important and i think the only solution is to ask because if you do not ask you will never know.

    It sounds like you have recently got married. I would suggest you get to know each other and enjoy each other before having a baby. A baby can put more strain on a relationship that is not stable with all the sleepless nights, crying which in turn cause tiredness and communication can really be bad at that point in time.
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    Salam Alekum sister
    Welcome to ISlAM and TTI.. May u benefit from this site InshAllah.. :) Ramadan Mubarak
    Sister u shld sit with him and start knowing more abt each other and ask him wat he likes and what u like.. So InshAllah it will be easier and May Allah make it easy 4 both if u.. Ameen :)
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    try tounderstand

    Waalaykumussalam Warah Matullah Hiwabarakatuh sis
    Alhamdulillah, so gald that get a new sister in Islam
    I think u should ask him and try to understand his culture
    cause when both of you come from different cultures
    sometimes it will have problem if one of you dont try to understand another one so ask him for to make you clear and can understand what he really want. Insyaallah, it will be success. :tti_sister:
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    salam

    you should respect him and tell him that you love him and stay close to him and inshallah you and him will be happy and he will be happy with you ameen
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    Can u help me find a good reverted brazilan wife .

    Salam. Am zakir. Am from. The u.k. I would like to move to rio brazil. Live a happy life with a reverted muslim wife. Do u know anyone lookng for a muslim husband. Iam asian. Parents from bangladesh. I was born and grew up in the u.k. Am 27.:astag:
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    brother its not a matrimonial website :)
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    assalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh sister

    I just popped in because I want to WELCOME you to Islam and TTI. :)

    As per the issue, truly I might not be the best person to have a say on this, as I have no experience in it yet. My brothers and sisters have given good advices. Keep utmost trust in Allah and pray Him to make this marriage successful. Last part of night, while you prostrate, while you break the fast are some of many times that acceptance of Du'a is nearer. :)

    wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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