I was a Jain Hindu. I converted to Islam just yesterday

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    DEAR BROTHERS,

    I WAS JAIN HINDU, CONVERTED TO ISLAM JUST YESTERDAY

    YES, ITS TRUE...INSALLAH, I DID SAHADAH JUST YESTERDAY ONLY.

    PLEASE HELP ME, THIS IS MY FIRST RAMADAN.

    ALSO I AM MARRIED WITH 2 KIDS AND I CANT TELL THEM ABOUT MY CONVERSION, THEY WILL KICK ME OUT.. I AM IN PROBLEM AS I HAVE TO HIDE IT AND I KNOW ALLAH WILL FORGIVE ME FOR THIS...

    ALLAHU AKBAR
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    Allahu Akbar !

    Assalamu alaikum and welcome to Islam and to the forum. I hope you will find your stay beneficial here, inshaAllah.
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    As Salaam Alaykum Brother,

    Welcome to Islam...Please PM me.
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    Salam :)

    Assalamu Alaikom warahmato Allah wa barkatoh...
    am so proud to see that people are converting to Islam..and u know brother..i registered on this site when i read ur story..i was so proud of you brother..
    i just need to tell u something..i know its hard to tell ur family about what u did..but dont forget that YOU are the father..they HAVE to accept what you are just as you accept them..and try to give them a picture of Islam..let them know what is Islam...they might love this religion..and they might convert..you will never know brother..i know its hard...cause am a muslim girl..and my family are muslim too..but still i cant let them do everythin am doing..i wish i could stand..once..only once facing al Qibla and find someone beside me...no one in my family prays...and this is a hard thing to live with..and we are all muslims..but still..am trying..and i will keep trying In Sha'Allah..
    may God accept what you did brother...and may ur life be filled with happiness till the end of the time..
    Sara..
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    Mashallah!!!

    Welcome to ISLAM and welcome to TTI :D

    May Allah ease your hardships.
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    Salaam,

    Ramadan Mubarak. May this month be filled with blessings for you.
    Brother, I will not pry into your situation. Concentrate on fasting and we will make dua that Allah subhana talla ease your circumstances.
    Welcome, welcome, welcome. Please, let us know what we can do to assit you.
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    Assalamoalaikum brother it is having a very soothing effect that u had accepted the truth alhamdolillah,it is no doubt a problem if your children are going to move away from you on this matter,there are solutions which would be effective inshaAllah,u may encourage them to read various religious scriptures including holy quran,the religious scriptures like vedas,upanishad,puran,budhdhist scriptures,parsi scriptures,bible,torah and rest they all prophesize about the advent of the holy prophet,till this day none of the ayats of the holy quran have been proved wrong by the science,quran tells about the stages of embroys,presence of both the sexes in plants and things which we dont know till now,this may be a slow process but inshaAllah it would bear result,secondaly every individual is separately accountable of ones own deeds,in the initial days dont take a big burden on yourself,for instance the night prayers (tarabi) are nafil (not obligatory),slowly and gradually you would be able to adjust yourself easily in this truth,do u know that those who revert to this truth(islam)they have reward of 5 times more in comparison to muslims who are born in muslim families,in every matter,including 5 times bigger paradise,do pray to Allah to guide your family towards the right faith,and work in that direction through the ways mentioned above,do make them watch the debates of zakir naik with other religions and on speeches on other religions..my id on orkut is with the name "chaudhary irfan raza khan"you may add me and my videos, i have many videos,my e mail id is irfan_attorney*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!,whenever you want any help from me which is your right u may inform me,i am from india itself.AllahHafiz...
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    Maşalllah,,
    firstly,I congratulate you to make this decision and don't hesitate.you are best and right way and you can explain yourself to your family in due course. All in good time,,
    one day maybe they will become muslim thanks to you,, becoming Muslim is very good thing there is nothing to hide it :)
    I think,you tell the truth in a short time .. otherwise, maybe it will disturb you and you can't focuse on anything.
    again welcome to Islam :shake:

    :ma: :ma: :ma: :ma:
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    Salamalaykum,

    Allah hu Akbar Allah hu Akbar masha Allah very very glad to hear about u brother please please accept my heartly welcoming greeting to Islam and welcome to TTI. If u in India then yeah i know its really hard :( may Allah help u and make things easy for u and accpt all ur deeds. Ameen. Brother pls remember me in ur duwas pls my request to u as u just revert to islam u as like a new born babe without sins and may Allah keep u safe. Ameen.

    Please feel free to ask any thing if u have any question as it will increase our knowledge also insha Allah and all brothers and sisters here will help and guide u in the light of Quran and sunnah. Brother again pls remember me in ur duwas.

    Allah hafiz.
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    Very good,bro. u did what i did last year. Comparied with the term "convert",i prefer the term "returner". yeah,we just return to the true path that we should keep after we were born. So plz always be proud to be a muslim,when u bow down,prostrate and say "Allahu Akbar", u will find that ur really grasping the truth. :salam2:
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    Salam malikum,

    Thanks to all of you, I am happy to hear from you all. I am proud. I really need your support. Thanks.....again...

    But the only problem that I cant tell my wife at all, she will never accept me and if I tell, she will either leave me or even suicide as she is deadly hindu jain and I never want to loose her as I have committed to live with her for life and I love her. My kids are also small. I am just 35 now.

    So I have to live double roles - me as islam and my wife as hindu for some time or years till I manage or become strong or find ways in future. I know its a sin but I also know that Allah will forgive me as something is better then nothing - as I am atleast Muslim now which is better then previous. I will not get 100 marks but yes Allah will give me some marks....Please help and give your comments which will support me....

    Thanks again
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    لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله

    Welcome to Islam Brother..
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    :salam2:

    welcome to Islam brother, i think you should get in contact with a local Imam or even brother Zakir Naik if possible.
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    Assalammualaikum Bro,

    Welcome to the ummah. May Allah bless you and guide you to the right path. I agreed with forumer user_expired. You should contact Brother Zakir Naik to get some advised on your situation with your family. My doa for you, may Allah ease your problem.
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    Asalaam'alikum brother,

    Welcome. You've entered a global Muslim site. Inshallah you'll find this place resourceful and rewarding.

    You're in a tough predicament. Perhaps slowly showing videos (i.e. The Message) of Islam to your wife will help or slowly talking about it, say once a week. This will help you understand her reaction a little more. Many reverts face these challenges, read their stories here on TTI and they'll provide you with solutions that might be beneficial to your circumstance.

    May Allah ease your situation and help you overcome this test. Ameen.
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    Asalamu alaykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh

    Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar

    you seem that you are not in good situation but insha Allah(god willing) it will all be changed by Almighty Allah. just be patient and take it step by step. you don't need to push yourself so hard. hope they understand u and follow u and be good family to you. :SMILY206: to ISLAM & TTI hope u enjoy ur stay here.
    may Allah subhana wata'ala ease ur hardships amiin......:)
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    THANKS AGAIN TO YOU AND ALL FOR TIPS AND ADVICE AND SHOWING RIGHT PATH...

    HOW AND WHERE TO CONTACT BROTHER Zakir Naik
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    Salaam,

    DR. ZAKIR ABDUL-KARIM NAIK

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    Tel : (0091-22) 23736875 (8 lines) Fax : (0091-22) 23730689
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    Thanks...cant I get someone in Kolkata (Calcutta) as he is mumbai....
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    don't worry

    Assalamualaikum....br

    Happy to hear the good news that Allah has chosen u to open ur heart to 'islam'. Alhamdulilla..... don't worry brother. You hav reachd a very high position which is a great 'reward' frm Allah.Rest of the matters r lighter compared to this acievement. Always seek Allah's help to overcome all those minor difficulties... Surely Allah wl help u to pass all the hardships.. but u hav to be patient.. Allah wl surely test yuor 'eeman'. you convince her that u r a very good husband and a father as before.... in ur coming life..If u r pious and be [patient to what Allah decides fr u.... surely u will 'win'...no doubt. She wl be attracted to ur new 'way of life'. In the beginning there may be some problems... but as time goes on... everything wl be alright. don't try to convince her in a 'haste'. Give ample time to her to understand u and ur new ways. whn she realises the fact that u hav reverted to ur original natural religion... she wl surely accept it. May Allah bless u to teach them the truth and u the leader of a good muslim family. Include me and my family also ..in ur prayers
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