miss_sunshine
"fear Allah Only"
:salam2: all hope u r all doing fine, iam experience the pains of labour so please make dua for me that Allah makes it easy and it goes all Well :tti_sister:
In labour plz make dis!
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IbnAdam77
Travelling towards my grave.
:salam2: all hope u r all doing fine, iam experience the pains of labour so please make dua for me that Allah makes it easy and it goes all Well :tti_sister:
wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh sister.
Even though there is pain, inside your heart, you will smile I am sure. Because of the happiness you will be having soon inshaAllah.
Today also I had to talk to my young brother about this topic because he spoke loudly and shouted at his mother. If Allah (subuhaanahu wata'aala) did not place that love and caring in their hearts towards us, no mother will bear that pains. Once, a person who came to Makkah to do Hajj or Umrah (I am not sure which one). He brought his mother on his back and did whole Hajj or Umrah by keeping her on his back. Then he came to 'Umar (radiyallahu 'anh) and said, that he has done all these by keeping his mother on his back, rather than using anything else for that purpose. Then asked whether he is paid to what his mother has provided him and what she went through. Then Umar (radiyallahu 'anh) said. "No! You have not paid for even a single drop of tears she shed when giving birth to you."
You and your son/daughter is in my Du'as sister. Keep utmost trust in Allah and have full hope. InshaAllah things will go smoothly.
wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
revert2007
Love Fishing
i dont know if u will read again this message now or after ur delivery..plz ask ur husband to forgive u before u go for ur delivery..and plz make dua that everything goes smooth..
it remind me of mine lol..no pain but i gain lol...i even salah ishaa when my water breaks and subahanaAllah it is very easy delivery...no pain at all till they indice the pain and within 1 1/2 hours i gave birth to a boy name Bilal ..the best thing is i prayed salah and ask for easy delivery and yes Allah granted my wish...i salah normal..without sitting on chair...MashaAllah...i will never forget my delivery..it is a very beautiful experience...SubahanAllah....(i had fibroid by the way..but subahaAllah it didnt growand i dont hv to do abortion..)
it remind me of mine lol..no pain but i gain lol...i even salah ishaa when my water breaks and subahanaAllah it is very easy delivery...no pain at all till they indice the pain and within 1 1/2 hours i gave birth to a boy name Bilal ..the best thing is i prayed salah and ask for easy delivery and yes Allah granted my wish...i salah normal..without sitting on chair...MashaAllah...i will never forget my delivery..it is a very beautiful experience...SubahanAllah....(i had fibroid by the way..but subahaAllah it didnt growand i dont hv to do abortion..)
etoile_de_mer
Junior Member
Sis Assalaamu Alaykum
make zikr as much as u can...everything shall be easy by the Will of Allah(swt)
remember Mariam(a.s) ...she was alone in the desert..but she gave birth to a wonderful child!Masha Allah!
so plz keep making dua..
i have been through twice and i know it;'s difficult and take lot of time..so be Patient ...Allah (SWT) is with u..
make zikr as much as u can...everything shall be easy by the Will of Allah(swt)
remember Mariam(a.s) ...she was alone in the desert..but she gave birth to a wonderful child!Masha Allah!
so plz keep making dua..
i have been through twice and i know it;'s difficult and take lot of time..so be Patient ...Allah (SWT) is with u..
:salam2:
may Allah make it easy and give you an healthy baby insha'Allah!
True, the strongest pain but rewarding too masha'Allah wa alhamdulillah!
may Allah make it easy and give you an healthy baby insha'Allah!
True, the strongest pain but rewarding too masha'Allah wa alhamdulillah!
Basicofislam
sister
Assalamalikum sister. I had those 4 months back. And man it hurts . We cant lessen the pain but may u have a quick delivery. Also remember to make dua for everyone cause your dua is accepted at that time.Want to hear the good news soon.
. We cant lessen the pain but may u have a quick delivery. Also remember to make dua for everyone cause your dua is accepted at that time.Want to hear the good news soon.
miss_sunshine
"fear Allah Only"
assalamu alaikum everyone thanks for all your beautiful dua's, i had a baby girl, i named her Ameena Alhamdulillah and we are both in good health. I ask Allah to give jannah to all of you.
Believer1985
Junior Member
Asalamalaikum,
Congratulations, sister! May Allah (swt) make her life and yours a happy and successful one in this life and the next life.
Congratulations, sister! May Allah (swt) make her life and yours a happy and successful one in this life and the next life.
W'alaikum salaam ukhti....
I think i'm a little too late but forgive me i just came across your request.
Congrats sis, may Allah ease both your pains in this life, surround you both with happiness and bless you all insha'allah.
again, i'm sorry if i'm late!
I think i'm a little too late but forgive me i just came across your request.
Congrats sis, may Allah ease both your pains in this life, surround you both with happiness and bless you all insha'allah.
again, i'm sorry if i'm late!
hassana elkoussi
Junior Member
:ma:
dear sister, this is great. Congratulations for our newborn niece Amina. May Allah protect her from all evil and make her one of His most righteous slaves.
:tti_sister: Ameen
Sister, don't forget to recite adhan in her right ear and Iqmah in her left one. Also to do aqiqah on the 7th day if that is possible.
Salam
dear sister, this is great. Congratulations for our newborn niece Amina. May Allah protect her from all evil and make her one of His most righteous slaves.
:tti_sister: Ameen
Sister, don't forget to recite adhan in her right ear and Iqmah in her left one. Also to do aqiqah on the 7th day if that is possible.
Salam
hassana elkoussi
Junior Member
:salam2: sister,
Plz have a look at this fromIslam QA
what should I do or be prepared with in receiving my new born baby in 1 or two days time. Any sunnah that I should follow.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
We ask Allaah to bless your new baby for you and to make him among the righteous and pious so that he will weigh in the balance of your good deeds, because it was reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When the son of Adam dies, all his good deeds come to an end, apart from three: sadaqah jaariyah (ongoing charity, such as a waqf or endowment), beneficial knowledge, and a righteous son who will pray for him.” (Narrated by Muslim, 1631).
Secondly:
There is no action prescribed in sharee’ah for preparing to welcome a new baby a day or two before he is born, as far as we know. But one can recite general du’aa’s, such as praying for the newborn to be safe and sound, to be guided, and so on. Allaah mentioned in His Book the prayer of the righteous woman, the wife of ‘Imraan, who said (interpretation of the meaning):
“(Remember) when the wife of ‘Imraan said: ‘O my Lord! I have vowed to You what (the child that) is in my womb to be dedicated for Your services (free from all worldly work; to serve Your place of worship), so accept this from me. Verily, You are the All-Hearer, the All-Knowing.’
Then when she gave birth to her [child Maryam (Mary)], she said: ‘O my Lord! I have given birth to a female child,’ — and Allaah knew better what she brought forth, — ‘And the male is not like the female, and I have named her Maryam (Mary), and I seek refuge with You (Allaah) for her and for her offspring from Shaytaan (Satan), the outcast.’” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:35-36]
There follows an outline of what should be done on the day of the child’s birth, and after that:
It is mustahabb to do tahneek for the baby and to pray for him.
It was reported that Abu Moosa said: “I had a baby boy, and I brought him to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He named him Ibraaheem, did Tahneek with some dates and prayed for Allaah to bless him, then he gave him back to me.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5150; Muslim, 2145). Tahneek means putting something sweet, such as dates or honey, in the child’s mouth when he is first born.
It is permissible to name the child on the first day or on the seventh.
It was reported that Anas ibn Maalik said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A boy was born to me this night and I have named him with the name of my father Ibraaheem.” (Narrated by Muslim, 3126).
It was reported that ‘Aa’ishah said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did ‘aqeeqah for al-Hasan and al-Husayn on the seventh day, and gave them their names. (Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan, 12/127; al-Haakim, 4/264. Classed as saheeh by al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar in Fath al-Baari, 9/589).
‘Aqeeqah and circumcision
It was reported from Salmaan ibn ‘Aamir (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For the boy there should be an ‘aqeeqah. Slaughter (an animal) for him and remove the harmful thing [i.e., the foreskin] from him.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1515; al-Nasaa’i, 4214; Abu Dawood, 2839; Ibn Maajah, 3164. The hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani, may Allaah have mercy on him, in al-Irwaa’, 4/396).
It was reported that Samurah ibn Jundub (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A boy is ransomed by his ‘aqeeqah. Sacrifice should be made for him on the seventh day, he should be given a name and his head should be shaved.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1522; al-Nasaa’i, 4220 and Abu Dawood, 2838. The hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani, may Allaah have mercy on him, in al-Irwaa’ 4/385).
Imaam ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
Among the benefits of ‘aqeeqah are:
It is a sacrifice by means of which the child is brought close to Allaah soon after he comes into this world.
It is a ransom for the newborn; his ‘aqeeqah ransoms him so that he can intercede for his parents.
It is a sacrifice by which the newborn is ransomed just as Allaah ransomed Ismaa’eel with the ram. (Tuhfat al-Mawdood, p. 69).
Perhaps another benefit of the ‘aqeeqah is the gathering of relatives and friends for the waleemah (feast).
4.Circumcision is part of the Sunan al-Fitrah (practices related to the pure and natural inclinations of man). It is obligatory in the case of boys because it is connected to matters of purity which are essential conditions of prayer.
It was reported from Abu Hurayrah: “Five things are related to the Fitrah: circumcision, removing the pubic hairs, plucking the armpit hairs, cutting the nails, and trimming the moustache.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5550; Muslim, 257).
Thirdly:
Among the Sunnahs for welcoming the newborn, the scholars mentioned that the Adhaan should be recited into the baby’s right ear so that the first thing he hears in this world will be the words of Tawheed, which will have a great and blessed effect on the child. With regard to reciting the iqaamah in the child’s left ear, there is nothing to prove that this is required. (See al-Silsilat al-Da’eefah, 1/491).
Fourthly:
Shaving the child’s head then anointing the child’s head with saffron is very beneficial. Then it is prescribed to give in charity gold or silver equal in weight to the hair. This does not have to be done by actually weighing the hair; if it is too difficult to do that, it is sufficient to estimate the weight and give paper currency equivalent to the price of that amount of gold or silver. We ask Allaah to protect us and our children from all evil and to keep them safe and sound in this world and in the Hereafter. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Hope this helps inshaAllah
Salam
Plz have a look at this fromIslam QA
Islamic actions for welcoming a new baby
what should I do or be prepared with in receiving my new born baby in 1 or two days time. Any sunnah that I should follow.
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
We ask Allaah to bless your new baby for you and to make him among the righteous and pious so that he will weigh in the balance of your good deeds, because it was reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When the son of Adam dies, all his good deeds come to an end, apart from three: sadaqah jaariyah (ongoing charity, such as a waqf or endowment), beneficial knowledge, and a righteous son who will pray for him.” (Narrated by Muslim, 1631).
Secondly:
There is no action prescribed in sharee’ah for preparing to welcome a new baby a day or two before he is born, as far as we know. But one can recite general du’aa’s, such as praying for the newborn to be safe and sound, to be guided, and so on. Allaah mentioned in His Book the prayer of the righteous woman, the wife of ‘Imraan, who said (interpretation of the meaning):
“(Remember) when the wife of ‘Imraan said: ‘O my Lord! I have vowed to You what (the child that) is in my womb to be dedicated for Your services (free from all worldly work; to serve Your place of worship), so accept this from me. Verily, You are the All-Hearer, the All-Knowing.’
Then when she gave birth to her [child Maryam (Mary)], she said: ‘O my Lord! I have given birth to a female child,’ — and Allaah knew better what she brought forth, — ‘And the male is not like the female, and I have named her Maryam (Mary), and I seek refuge with You (Allaah) for her and for her offspring from Shaytaan (Satan), the outcast.’” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:35-36]
There follows an outline of what should be done on the day of the child’s birth, and after that:
It is mustahabb to do tahneek for the baby and to pray for him.
It was reported that Abu Moosa said: “I had a baby boy, and I brought him to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He named him Ibraaheem, did Tahneek with some dates and prayed for Allaah to bless him, then he gave him back to me.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5150; Muslim, 2145). Tahneek means putting something sweet, such as dates or honey, in the child’s mouth when he is first born.
It is permissible to name the child on the first day or on the seventh.
It was reported that Anas ibn Maalik said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A boy was born to me this night and I have named him with the name of my father Ibraaheem.” (Narrated by Muslim, 3126).
It was reported that ‘Aa’ishah said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did ‘aqeeqah for al-Hasan and al-Husayn on the seventh day, and gave them their names. (Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan, 12/127; al-Haakim, 4/264. Classed as saheeh by al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar in Fath al-Baari, 9/589).
‘Aqeeqah and circumcision
It was reported from Salmaan ibn ‘Aamir (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For the boy there should be an ‘aqeeqah. Slaughter (an animal) for him and remove the harmful thing [i.e., the foreskin] from him.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1515; al-Nasaa’i, 4214; Abu Dawood, 2839; Ibn Maajah, 3164. The hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani, may Allaah have mercy on him, in al-Irwaa’, 4/396).
It was reported that Samurah ibn Jundub (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A boy is ransomed by his ‘aqeeqah. Sacrifice should be made for him on the seventh day, he should be given a name and his head should be shaved.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1522; al-Nasaa’i, 4220 and Abu Dawood, 2838. The hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani, may Allaah have mercy on him, in al-Irwaa’ 4/385).
Imaam ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
Among the benefits of ‘aqeeqah are:
It is a sacrifice by means of which the child is brought close to Allaah soon after he comes into this world.
It is a ransom for the newborn; his ‘aqeeqah ransoms him so that he can intercede for his parents.
It is a sacrifice by which the newborn is ransomed just as Allaah ransomed Ismaa’eel with the ram. (Tuhfat al-Mawdood, p. 69).
Perhaps another benefit of the ‘aqeeqah is the gathering of relatives and friends for the waleemah (feast).
4.Circumcision is part of the Sunan al-Fitrah (practices related to the pure and natural inclinations of man). It is obligatory in the case of boys because it is connected to matters of purity which are essential conditions of prayer.
It was reported from Abu Hurayrah: “Five things are related to the Fitrah: circumcision, removing the pubic hairs, plucking the armpit hairs, cutting the nails, and trimming the moustache.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5550; Muslim, 257).
Thirdly:
Among the Sunnahs for welcoming the newborn, the scholars mentioned that the Adhaan should be recited into the baby’s right ear so that the first thing he hears in this world will be the words of Tawheed, which will have a great and blessed effect on the child. With regard to reciting the iqaamah in the child’s left ear, there is nothing to prove that this is required. (See al-Silsilat al-Da’eefah, 1/491).
Fourthly:
Shaving the child’s head then anointing the child’s head with saffron is very beneficial. Then it is prescribed to give in charity gold or silver equal in weight to the hair. This does not have to be done by actually weighing the hair; if it is too difficult to do that, it is sufficient to estimate the weight and give paper currency equivalent to the price of that amount of gold or silver. We ask Allaah to protect us and our children from all evil and to keep them safe and sound in this world and in the Hereafter. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Hope this helps inshaAllah
Salam
:salam2:
Congratulations sister ! ..
May Allah swt keep little Ameenah in his protection always and make her among the Saliheen. Ameen
Congratulations sister ! ..
May Allah swt keep little Ameenah in his protection always and make her among the Saliheen. Ameen