Incompatible WIFE!

abubaseer

tanzil.info
Staff member
I know she doesn't love me, I know I don't love her.
We both prayed istikharah prayer, How come we don't love each other?
We are both religious. We accept the akhirah theory.
Why we don't love each other,is still a mystery.

Financially stable, poverty I don't fear.
I have an excellent career.
My children are sincere.
Islamic laws, I do adhere.

I have every thing,but there is something missing.
I am willing to sacrifice every thing.
My woman's love is what I need,O friends, from where can I buy that thing.

I shed some tears....
Pre-destined it appears.
a thought struck my mind.
Allah's guidance might have been behind.

I do understand the need is painful.
I do understand the need is valuable.
But hey, to put it in a nutshell,Understand, that "the love" is her need as well.

It maybe that i'll never love her.But I can be an actor,and hypnotize her.
Give her the fake-love to the highest degree,and make her to love me.

She will get the valuable thing.
But I might end up getting nothing.
This might sound a little crappy,But atleast, she will be happy.
But hey, know that Allah sees your efforts.I can surely see a lot of rewards.
Tahajjud, Dua is my ultimate weapon.

The results might not be sudden.
Can Allah fill her heart with my love?
Can Allah fill my heart with her love?
The hearts are in HIS control,Be patient, O my soul.

I now know a mission of my life.
Help my wife to enjoy her life.
I have high hopes with you O' Allah.As you are my only Maulah.

Found on the internet...
 

abubaseer

tanzil.info
Staff member
Wa Alaykum As Salaam,

I'm not sure if it is based on a true story...But many Muslim husbands would relate to this.
 

summertime

sister :)
MAny muslim husband would relate to it????? what do you mean by that???You seem to be saying that most muslim marriages are loveless ..your scaring me now!!
 

abubaseer

tanzil.info
Staff member
As Salaam Alaykum Sister,

A little clarification...

"many" as in more than one...
NOT as in majority.
 

summertime

sister :)
ohh sorry about that!! It's a pity though is'nt it...that someone doesnt love the person they are married too...i couldnt imagine spending my whle life in a lovelss marriage!!
 

summertime

sister :)
very true...May Allah give anyone in such a situation the sabr to deal with it and then a good reward for it in the end..Ameen
 
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