I'm getting conflicting opinions. One side says I shouldn't get married because I'm too young, not financially stable to support a spouse and don't have the emotional ability to handle marriage. The other side says I should get married because deen is more important over being financially stable etc. I do my very best to fulfil Islam but when I hear the same so called "solutions" like fasting and spending time with the pious I get frustrated become they seem unrealistic. Yes fasting is a great solution to diminish sexual desires but it only lasts temporarily because once a person refuels their body by eating and drinking the desires come back just like before they began fasting. It's the same with spending time with the pious. Once a person leaves the company of the pious the sexual desires come back. It's extremely difficult to fulfil Islam because I don't live in an Islamic household or am surrounded in an Islamic environment. These conflicting opinions make me feel as if I should just give up because it seems like a joke that no one can seem to agree on anything.
You are getting conflicting advice because advice is based on knowing the full facts and their analysis. This is a forum and people hardly know you.
The basics on this matter is :Allah: has created us to long for companionship and at your age your hormones are raging and your intellectual and maturity levels haven't quiet caught up to them yet. As a Muslim man you need to fulfill multiple roles, firstly you need to be able to satisfy your physical, emotional and psychological desires, secondly you need to be able to financially provide for your household as it is your responsibility and thirdly you need to transform yourself from being a passenger into "Head of a Household" and be able to take care of someone's daughter, sister etc.
The first need is what is foremost in many people's mind.
The second need requires a lifestyle change on your part and forum members don't know you enough to figure out your responsibility etc.
The third need requires an evaluational of your personality and lifestyle which can't be done on the forum and only the people who know you can judge.
This is exactly why you need to go through a Wali in Islam because the Wali will determine your suitability to fulfill needs 2 & 3 respectively. There are many Sisters who tear apart the protection which :Allah: (ie Wali) has granted them abandon the Sunnah and then pay the price; all because some man tickles their heart and lines up the road ahead with Gold nuggets!