Women and men are equal in the value of our souls, we are just different and have different rules. Men are not more valuable in Islam but they do have more obligations. Feminism isn't about women ruling men, it's about giving women the dignity they deserve.
When you think about it, Islam is the height of feminism. It demands that men lower their gaze and that women treat their bodies with respect and not display it like a piece of meat. And as far as older women being argumentative, Rasool's love for Kadijah was legendary. She gave her wealth and heart to our Prophet. It was her older and more mature personality that made for such a successful marriage.
As salamo alaikome
Very well said sister! I couldnt have said it any better! I totally agree!