kolimuddin
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I am currently overseas , and seem to be on the phone with my phone on a regular basis, I usually tend to be there with my wife on the phone when she is traveling to and fro work , coz i wont feel at ease unless she has reached safely. Other times I tend to be with her in times of need e.g she has had a RUFF day and needs some emotional support and consolation. Now i am aware that these are my duties as a husband towards her but here is my question and confusion. Technically the time difference is 4 hours (she being ahead) now what happens is that her early evenings are my mid afternoons and my evening is her night . So basically what i am trying to say is that due to the time difference I seem to be missing out on my Prayers ... at the time of Zuhr I want to tend to her because I need to make sure she reaches home safely Subhan'ALLAH how the Jamaah over here starts when she leaves her offices and the namaaz ends when she reaches home ... even for ASR it becomes quite haphazard during situations where i tend to be there for her if she had a ruff day and my Maghrib time is her bed time like way way late into the nite. A whole lot of confusion about what to do ... please dont tell me that i need to talk to my wife about this ... done it , but situation seems to get on fire whenever salaah time approaches and problems start to be created on its own.
Any sensible advice
I am currently overseas , and seem to be on the phone with my phone on a regular basis, I usually tend to be there with my wife on the phone when she is traveling to and fro work , coz i wont feel at ease unless she has reached safely. Other times I tend to be with her in times of need e.g she has had a RUFF day and needs some emotional support and consolation. Now i am aware that these are my duties as a husband towards her but here is my question and confusion. Technically the time difference is 4 hours (she being ahead) now what happens is that her early evenings are my mid afternoons and my evening is her night . So basically what i am trying to say is that due to the time difference I seem to be missing out on my Prayers ... at the time of Zuhr I want to tend to her because I need to make sure she reaches home safely Subhan'ALLAH how the Jamaah over here starts when she leaves her offices and the namaaz ends when she reaches home ... even for ASR it becomes quite haphazard during situations where i tend to be there for her if she had a ruff day and my Maghrib time is her bed time like way way late into the nite. A whole lot of confusion about what to do ... please dont tell me that i need to talk to my wife about this ... done it , but situation seems to get on fire whenever salaah time approaches and problems start to be created on its own.
Any sensible advice
