mu dad left to saudi arabia...

[stiks]

"And because they were Patient and constant, He will reward them with a Garden and (garments) of silk."



"O you who believe! Persevere in patience and constancy; vie in such perseverance; Strengthen each other; And fear Allah; That you may prosper." Al-Imran:200



"And be steadfast in patience; For verily Allah will not suffer the reward of the righteous to perish." hud:115

 

[IslamIsLight]

salam aleikum sister

she is not my mother, she is someone else, i cant beleive that she is my mother...
i did not get a mother from when i was matchure ..

Sister this is very sad to hear you saying this about your mother ..
How you can say she is not your mother ..She is ,of course she is ..
Imagine if something like this happened to you ,would your mother say she is not my daughter ? of course not ..She is not just body ,or piece of furniture ,she is a living human being ,who needs love and affection and attention of all of you ..
How many people don't have mother ? How many people do not have opportunity to serve their parents ..Allah has given you this opportunity to serve your mother ,even if its hard ,but you have a great blessing ,your mother with you ...

she is just a body, a body which does not cry,which does laught..
she just sleeps,and eats..
she has no feelings..

Sister she has feeling ,please don't say that ,she needs your attention and love and care ,and it is your duty to give it to her ,and you will be rewarded greatly by Allah for that ...

She was there for you when you were little ,she suffered for you ,now it is your turn to serve her ,it is your turn to be there for her in all her needs ..

She cleaned after you when you were child ,now it is your turn to do that ..


Please sister do your best for your mother ,be strong and accept and submit to what Allah has decreed for you ,never give up in the Mercy of Allah and keep praying ..

waaleikum salam

 

[allah is with me]

your right sister aisha anasthesia, but sister..
it hurts me a lot, i having a mother, its like ..
oh sister! how can i tell you, how can i explain you bout my mother...
i cry day and night, thinking bout my parents..
alhamdulillah! i do serve for them..
but somewhere nor other it pinches my heart, when someone asks me were is your mother?..
my friends talk to thier parents and introduce me to them...but i, whome shall i introduse to?
my friend ask me .' WERE IS YOUR MOTHER? WHY DOESNT SHE COME? IS YOUR MOTHER DEAD?'..
ya allah! my mother bieng alive how can anyone say she is dead...
i say to them no, she is alive indeed..they ask me. ' if she is, then were is she?...
(my mother does not come out, just sits at one place, and if she does she cannot hear properly, because of dipperession)...
what should i say to them...
should i say to them that she is not fine?..
when i say them' my mother is not fine'..
they ask me when will your mother be fine?...
and again they ask me about my mother' WHERE IS YOU MOTHER'?..
what should i say..
should i lie?
saying my mother is outside, when she is at home...
and when i reveal my story, my real story to them..
they just pretend as if they care about my mother,
and behind me , they mock, they make fun of my mom...
what should i do...
till when?...
why allah! why?..
why cant i feel my mothers love allah?..
why?
it hurts me when i see other parents..
sister you would realise, you would understand, if you were in my place..
every one say (even my relatives) to my father to give my mother talak ( divorce)..
every 1 mock behind my mother,
everyone tease my mother...
my fathers mother has done black magic on my mother.i dont wanna even say her my grand ma.
allah will never forgive her. she has challanged with allah by destroying my mothers life...
she will be questioned on the day of resurrection...
i am waiting for the promised day..
i have to question to that female who destroyed my mother..'
i am just waiting for that day...

 

[a_stranger]

:salam2: sister

Dear sister have faith that nothing is stronger than Allah our creator even the magic people do is nothing beside Allah swt , I suggest that you start a program to cure your mother , let Quran be recited in your home day and night , read near her but with a heart , if you have a tv there are some channels which read Quran day and night. Have more faith and pray with a sincere heart , and try mental therepy for your mother, May be sister shy higabi can give better advice but believe me faith and trust in Allah can make a differance, have a certain faith that we are his slaves and Allah swt can do anything . I know you are young and have no experience in life but difficuilties will make you grow and be a very good caring mother.

 

[allah is with me]

your right sister a_stranger...surely, your right...

 

[brand-new22]

I am truely sorry to hear this that your mom isn't happy anymore.

I hope things brighten up for you all soon

 

[~Ali_]

... Assalamualaikum - this makes alot more sense... what kind of nutjob goes out and does black magic (even my parents are obsessed with this stuff) its like.. gah! do you not know that Allah the Creator of the Heavens and Earth has Power over all things!!!!! and yet these people still go to these magicians and commit these ridaclous acts... Sister... I think you know the One to go to , to seek aid, to seek refuge, to seek help from - the One and Only that can help you.

a_stranger has suggested some beautiful advice
InshaAllah everything works out - never give up hope sister - and if people ask you where is your mother - tell them the truth! - and if they mock, then atleast you know who your real friends are, no?