It is simply a visdom from Allah SWT and he knows best! and may Allah SWT easier the way for every sister in Islam to fully surrender to Allah!
My husband once told me: if you have to choose between 2 pieces of candy and one of them is wrapped in and the other one is not, wich one would you choose?
When he asked me why I would want to marry him I answered: there is no other man that would treat his wife and family best other than a man who fears Allah SWT! If your husband fears Allah SWT, then be not afraid to obey him and follow him because he is part of your key to Jennah! And he must answer to Allah SWT for his family when that day come, therefore he wouldn't dare misstreat his family. This is the visdom behind Allah SWT command to obey our husband!
Please se following videos, strenghtning our Imaan!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XaLlbS5gDfI&feature=youtube_gdata_player
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt3tlyPkTeA&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Alhamdulillah I am a muslim! Alhamdulillah for every day I have for I can spend it in worshipping Allah SWT in everything I do! Begging him for his mercy when that day will come! And dear brothers and sisters, we cannot escape death, none of us can!
Dear muslim brothers and sisters, spread Islam everywere! Think about the difficulties profeth Muhammed (saws) went true to turn people into Islam! Think about it, then our lives doesn't feel so difficult anymore.
More important, we are not living this life to enjoy, we are living this life to do good deeds and serve Allah SWT so that we can enjoy an eternity in our next life
My husband once told me: if you have to choose between 2 pieces of candy and one of them is wrapped in and the other one is not, wich one would you choose?
When he asked me why I would want to marry him I answered: there is no other man that would treat his wife and family best other than a man who fears Allah SWT! If your husband fears Allah SWT, then be not afraid to obey him and follow him because he is part of your key to Jennah! And he must answer to Allah SWT for his family when that day come, therefore he wouldn't dare misstreat his family. This is the visdom behind Allah SWT command to obey our husband!
Please se following videos, strenghtning our Imaan!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XaLlbS5gDfI&feature=youtube_gdata_player
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt3tlyPkTeA&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Alhamdulillah I am a muslim! Alhamdulillah for every day I have for I can spend it in worshipping Allah SWT in everything I do! Begging him for his mercy when that day will come! And dear brothers and sisters, we cannot escape death, none of us can!
Dear muslim brothers and sisters, spread Islam everywere! Think about the difficulties profeth Muhammed (saws) went true to turn people into Islam! Think about it, then our lives doesn't feel so difficult anymore.
More important, we are not living this life to enjoy, we are living this life to do good deeds and serve Allah SWT so that we can enjoy an eternity in our next life