Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
assalam alakum
Is it something normal or is it something bad that after you meet/spend some time with the girl and her family who you wanna marry with, then you become attached to them. Your mind and heart is kinda busy with it , like you would like to marry immediately. However, you can not marry now as you both studying in another country.
But now maybe you can engage and unless Allah makes an another way for you, there will be still 3-4 years before real marriage.
So i wonder, is it bad to feel like that ? Maybe anyone went through same process
Maybe this attachment is result something you doing wrong ? What to do
Is it something normal or is it something bad that after you meet/spend some time with the girl and her family who you wanna marry with, then you become attached to them. Your mind and heart is kinda busy with it , like you would like to marry immediately. However, you can not marry now as you both studying in another country.
But now maybe you can engage and unless Allah makes an another way for you, there will be still 3-4 years before real marriage.
So i wonder, is it bad to feel like that ? Maybe anyone went through same process
Maybe this attachment is result something you doing wrong ? What to do